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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-20 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3364 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3364 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Glass Scientists]


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[Ghostbusters remake]


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[All for One Webseries]


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[Castle]


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[DC Comics]


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[Reign of Fire]


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08.
[Steven Universe]


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[K. Tempest Bradford]


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[Against the Wall]


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[Queer Literature, "In the Company of Shadows"]


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(Star Wars Rebels)


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[Jeeves and Wooster, P.G. Wodehouse]


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14.
[Giles Coren]


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15.
[James Marsters/Rick Grimes of The Walking Dead]









Notes:

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Re: How do you cope with...

[personal profile] caerbannog 2016-03-20 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
First I would take a break and go do something. Be it clean my house or go to the park or the movies. Something that gets me out and about. It doesn't have to be great and I don't have to do it for long.

To put up with it, I ignore things that tell me "what I should be like at X age". I try not to think about it and focus on what I'm doing. Today I am walking my dog with a potential friend and going grocery shopping. That's nice and productive in my books! I'll end it half-heartedly watching whatever movie is on tv and squishing my dogs face.

And that's it, I try to take it day by day. Sometimes I will struggle and be frustrated or upset (my finances are not so great right now, which leads to stupid financial choices out of stress) but it eventually passes. But while it's happening I just try to focus on myself and enjoy little things. A cup of tea, a little indie game, the black hole that is youtube educational videos.

"...nothing special or life changing will ever happen to you..."

The thing about life is you can't guarantee that. Just like you can't guarantee everyone dying in a freak accident leaving you alone. You can nudge you life to increase your odds, but there's no guarantee.
Especially since life changing can be a negative event. I had a couple of events last year that changed my life, neither pleasant or that I wish to repeat. But lots of shit came out of it. Some good, some bad.

Hope you feel better soon anon :(