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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-25 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3369 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3369 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02. http://i.imgur.com/6Q4pNb9.gifv
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[Mulan 2]


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(Devil May Cry)


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(Justin Lukach, Departures)


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[New Tricks]


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[One Direction]


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(rantasmo)


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[Killer Instinct for xbox one]


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[Fallen London]


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18. [SPOILERS for The Blacklist]




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19. [SPOILERS for Zootopia]




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20. [SPOILERS for Boku dake ga Inai Machi (ERASED)]




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21. [SPOILERS for House of Cards (Character Death)]




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22. [WARNING for rape/sexual assault]



















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How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 02:43 am (UTC)(link)

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
translation: I've never made a woman orgasm in my life

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 03:15 am (UTC)(link)

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 06:34 am (UTC)(link)
translation of your translation: I've never made a woman orgasm more than once in my life

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
Waiting for the punchline here

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
It's never finished. Lesbians are all perpetually having sex. Yes, even when we appear to be waiting in line at the DMV or doing our grocery shopping or going to work.

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 04:24 am (UTC)(link)
u know women orgasm right?

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 11:50 am (UTC)(link)
But women can have multiple orgasms and a lot of women are even MORE aroused after the first orgasm. So that's probably where anon was going with this.

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 03:25 pm (UTC)(link)
in that case they're either a pretty boring man or have been with pretty boring men if they think a pump and dump is always where sex ends. have they never heard of multiple rounds? you stop when you feel like stopping, wtf

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 04:57 pm (UTC)(link)
NA

if they think a pump and dump is always where sex ends...

...you stop when you feel like stopping


These statements are opposed. See, a 'Pump and dump' is when the man feels like stopping so he stops. So for these statements to work together, then what you're suggesting is that after the man has finished they keep going with the sex until the girl decides to stop. But what about when there are to girls? There is no physical indication that either one would be ready to stop.

Also: you stop when you feel like stopping Makes you sound like a selfish lover. "Well, I feel like stopping. Go take care of yourself. Good night"

You stop when both parties feel like stopping.

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 11:52 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a woman who has multiple orgasms and gets more aroused after the first one. I'm guessing that's what you're driving at, no? I'm done when I'm tired, or when the arousal starts to go away.

How do lesbians know when the sex is finished? When everyone's happy, satisfied, and wants to stop. It's not rocket science.

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 12:48 pm (UTC)(link)
First, yes that's pretty much what I was driving at, and thanks for answering and not being shitty.

Second, that being the case for when you are done having sex, how do you know when your partner is done? Like with heterosexual sex there is a very obvious cue to when the guy is finished, and the rest of the sex goes until the woman has had enough. With Lesbian sex, is there not a danger of getting into a politness loop? "Well, I'm done, but she still seems into it, so not I go" while the other girl is like "I'm so tired, why won't she let me sleep".

I mean I imagine the answer is communication, but that feels inelegant to me. "Well, I'm done having sex with you for tonight, You good? *Rolls over*".

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Communication is the key to all things.

Also, in my experience... there is a large class of things where the answer to "How do I do this thing?" is "You just do." And I think this is one of those things.

Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 08:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you not talk to people while you have sex? It's not a matter of "inelegant", its a matter of communicating like an adult.

And not all women have no refractory period.