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fandomsecrets2016-03-25 06:51 pm
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How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 02:43 am (UTC)(link)Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 02:54 am (UTC)(link)Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 03:15 am (UTC)(link)Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 06:34 am (UTC)(link)Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 02:57 am (UTC)(link)Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 03:00 am (UTC)(link)Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 04:24 am (UTC)(link)Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 11:50 am (UTC)(link)Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 03:25 pm (UTC)(link)Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 04:57 pm (UTC)(link)if they think a pump and dump is always where sex ends...
...you stop when you feel like stopping
These statements are opposed. See, a 'Pump and dump' is when the man feels like stopping so he stops. So for these statements to work together, then what you're suggesting is that after the man has finished they keep going with the sex until the girl decides to stop. But what about when there are to girls? There is no physical indication that either one would be ready to stop.
Also: you stop when you feel like stopping Makes you sound like a selfish lover. "Well, I feel like stopping. Go take care of yourself. Good night"
You stop when both parties feel like stopping.
Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 11:52 am (UTC)(link)How do lesbians know when the sex is finished? When everyone's happy, satisfied, and wants to stop. It's not rocket science.
Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 12:48 pm (UTC)(link)Second, that being the case for when you are done having sex, how do you know when your partner is done? Like with heterosexual sex there is a very obvious cue to when the guy is finished, and the rest of the sex goes until the woman has had enough. With Lesbian sex, is there not a danger of getting into a politness loop? "Well, I'm done, but she still seems into it, so not I go" while the other girl is like "I'm so tired, why won't she let me sleep".
I mean I imagine the answer is communication, but that feels inelegant to me. "Well, I'm done having sex with you for tonight, You good? *Rolls over*".
Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)Also, in my experience... there is a large class of things where the answer to "How do I do this thing?" is "You just do." And I think this is one of those things.
Re: How do lesbians know when the sex is finished?
(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 08:35 pm (UTC)(link)And not all women have no refractory period.