[ SECRET POST #3370 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3370 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

When my friends ask me, I say I want a relationship, that I'm looking but just really picky. But really? The whole thing seems like it would take a lot more time and energy than it's worth.

I don't think I'm aromantic or anything; I've been in relationships before. I just can't be bothered.

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

How about say exactly that? If you think saying that sounds too apathetic/anti-relationship, you can follow up by adding that IF you somehow manage to meet someone who you love so much it's worth the time and energy, you'd be open to it (if this is accurate to how you feel), but otherwise you just don't care about being in one.

Re: Confession thread

[skeletal_history]

...I was just going to post the same thing.

I feel so unenthused by the idea of being in a relationship that a man could appear on my doorstep with an angel of the Lord beside him saying, "This is your soulmate. You and he were made for each other and your relationship will be happy and fulfilling for the rest of your days," and I'd still be like, "...Uhhh.....could we just be friends for a while...or maybe forever..."

My past relationships have all involved me feeling pressured to change myself to conform to his lifestyle, and I like my low-key life right now and don't want to change anything about myself or make room for anyone else in it. And I've felt this way for years and am almost 40, so I get the concerned questions and eager offers to hook me up with random dudes from friends, coworkers, even my dental hygienist(!?), all the time.

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

My past relationships have all involved me feeling pressured to change myself to conform to his lifestyle, and I like my low-key life right now and don't want to change anything about myself or make room for anyone else in it.

You are me! We are meant to not be together and totally be friends (from afar, on the Internet, with very little effort). <3

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, same. I'm kind of in a place right now where I only want to focus on me, just be completely selfish about how I spend my time. I genuinely don't have it in me to want to start dating anyone.

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

Same here. People occasionally remind me that 'no worries, you'll find someone'. And I'm like 'wut?' because that's the absolute last thing on my mind right now. I'd like a few good friends or a best friend but a relationship...That sounds like a hassle. I'd probably be more freaked out if there was someone I actually did like right now, because than what do I do? But it seems that's almost impossible for most people to understand.

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

I can't be arsed with one right now, but I do want better sex than I've had so far in my life. Problem is that I'm a female sub and feel I need to trust the top enough to have really good sex which involves investing in some kind of ongoing relationship thing I guess.