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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-13 07:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #3388 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3388 ⌋

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[Pokémon, John Lone]


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[Mass Effect/Dragon Age]


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[Fire Emblem]


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[Bleach]


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[Lord of the Rings]


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[The Aliens]


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(Stardew Valley)


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[Caitlyn Jenner]


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TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-13 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
What do y'all think for the Toby Turner situation?

What do you think about all the women coming out and throwing April Efff under the bus?

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-13 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I think that the internet is a stupid place to try and find justice if you think you have been wronged.

Go to the cops if you are being abused, not Tumblr.

And it isn't throwing someone under the bus if they are lying. Which, she may or may not be. But if you use the internet for "justice" be prepared for people on the internet to scrutinize and disagree with you.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
Why is this "I'm skeptical" bullshit only ever directed at the women who are the victims? No one ever looks at him professing his innocence and says "He's lying, of course he would say that."

Here's something to think about:

A rapist man has so much more to gain from lying and saying he is not a rapist...
...than any non-raped woman has to gain by lying and saying she was raped.

but of course everyone suggests being skeptical of her story and believing his without fucking question.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
... you mean as opposed to nobody ever believing or even ridiculing male victims?

And wow, no, a woman has a lot to gain by claiming son guy raped her. Like destroy his life when people believe her over him. Which some women have definitely done because of petty reasons.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 06:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Ahuh and once I saw a person on welfare buying lobster and steak!!!!

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 09:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, that's totally the same thing.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-15 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
The cops huh?
It's very hard to get someone tried and convicted for rape (jw, have you seen the statistics?), and it's near impossible without damning DNA evidence. And even then the victim may not want to go through the humiliation of a trial, where they will be publicly interrogated and made to look like a liar. Basically you have to be over-the-top prepared, and usually traumatized victims think rationally (i.e. go straight to a hospital, don't take a shower or clean up)

With the internet, it's easier to warn other potential victims, even if the accusations amount to nothing. If I was raped, I'd wanna warn others; even if I was branded a liar, I'd feel justified if it means I saved even one other person from experiencing agony.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-15 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
*traumatized victims DON'T think rationally
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

Re: TW Rape

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-04-13 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
No idea who he is or what he's know for, other than that he apparently raped someone and she came forward after seeing toys of him at the store.

Assuming I'm thinking of the right person.
Edited 2016-04-13 23:59 (UTC)
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Re: TW Rape

[personal profile] feotakahari 2016-04-14 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Apparently he does this thing where he dubs over dramatic trailers with humorous literal descriptions of what's going on. I only know about it because his Assassin's Creed dub made it into AMV Hell to redub a scene from Berserk.
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Re: TW Rape

[personal profile] feotakahari 2016-04-13 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
When multiple exes accuse you of rape, it qualifies as a pattern. I'm all for getting that out there in some way, if only for the benefit of the next person to date him. I'd sooner see the police involved, but I'm not sure how practical that would be if the last incident was in 2013.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Except multiple exes have called her out and said she was lying or exaggerating.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
Which means what exactly?

It means fuck all. All it takes for him to be a rapist is to rape one woman, regardless of how well like by other women he is.
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Re: TW Rape

[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-04-13 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I posted some sources on this on Monday if anyone's curious. It's in GC.

edit: Here it is.
Edited 2016-04-14 00:02 (UTC)

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
I don't really care and I avoid it as much as possible.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know that they are throwing her under the bus. They're all saying "He never raped me" while at the same time saying how he was sexually domineering, unwilling to take no for an answer and sexually pushy. The only thing stopping these actions from being rape is the womens feelings about it. The actions themselves are only not rape when the woman is ok with being pushed into sex. As soon as any one woman is not ok with what he's done, he has committed a rape.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
So can I get some sources on the other exes? Cause I can't grasp from this thread whether they're using the "he never raped me" excuse to say he wouldn't do it (which is a shitty excuse imo and reminds me of all the people who said to me 'but he was always so nice to me!' when I would mention my dad abusing me), or to just clarify their own experience.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
"unwilling to take no for an answer"
Isn't that the very definition of rape?

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 06:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Mte rape by coercion and needling until you're worn down and say yes is still rape

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
He's a YouTuber. Who cares.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
To be fair, he's a tuber who finds young, very young female fans and uses his influence to push them in to sex acts.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
Who?

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-15 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know who those 2 people are.