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⌈ Secret Post #3394 ⌋

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[Blacksad]

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[Hemlock Grove]

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[Final Fight]

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[Sherlock]

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[Star Wars: The Force Awakens]

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[Anthony Cumia, Opie and Anthony talk show]

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Well, you *could* just let people be free to do their own thing on the internets.

Or I *could* help a bunch of impressionable young girls not die.

I know when I had an eating disorder, it totally worked when people tried to save my life! I definitely didn't resent them at all for it.

Congrats.

You're here, aren't you?

Resentful, maybe, yeah. But you're here. And that kinda just proves the AYRT's point.

Are you for real?

I'm not here because someone on the internet tried to save me. I'm here because I made a personal choice that I wasn't going to let ED kill me.

No one can make that choice for anyone else. ED is about control as much as it's about food or body image. When you try to nursemaid people or strip them of their autonomy, it only makes them more determined to self-destruct.

I have to agree with this. Meanspo does sound really, really terrible, but as with pretty much all the outward behaviors of eating disorders, it's a symptom for more than it's a cause. And when I had an ED, people trying to forcibly stop my eating disordered behaviors only made me commit to my eating disorder even harder.

*far more than it's a cause.

You're not helping. You're not a doctor, you're not a psychiatrist, you are in no way the help that they need. You're some random person on the internet that literally no one is going to listen to. All you're going to do is make them feel worse.

But feeling worse is the whole point of the tag, so either way, I can't really fuck it up, can I?

Edited 2016-04-20 02:51 (UTC)

It might not make them *feel* worse. But it will absolutely reinforce their behavior.

The person you replied to doesn't seem to have any understanding of how ED works.

Yeah, I get it. Everyone on the internet must be babysitted and reported and controlled 24/7 for their own good.

I know you're trolling, but I'm bored, so...

I'm only reporting the tag because seeing shit like that in the tags can have have such a detrimental affect on a person. I've been there and done that, and I'm glad they allow you to report stuff like that now.

I'm not trolling. I'm fiercely opposed to people controlling other people. Partly because it only pisses them off and makes the behavior worse. So you report the tag and get it shut down. You think that's going to stop them? Are you inferring that certain tags shouldn't be allowed on tumblr? Who gets to decide that? What other tags are not allowed? Do you really see no problem with trying to stop and silence things that you believe are wrong at the expense of others' freedoms? If you're concerned, don't you think it might be better to send asks to these accounts offering your help and support, rather than reporting them like misbehaving children? Or perhaps start your own ED education tumblr?

This.

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