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⌈ Secret Post #3404 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

[(Anonymous)]

In my experience? Abusive, toxic people will never ever change, and never ever get better. At least if they're hermits, they can't hurt anybody.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

[(Anonymous)]

Well, no, that's fucking wrong and incredibly shitty. We're not talking about abusers in general. We're talking about people who have BPD. It is a mood disorder. It is not a moral failing. People can improve with treatment.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

[(Anonymous)]

People with BPD are abusive unless they get help. Full stop. If they won't get help, they need to stop being around people, period.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

[(Anonymous)]

That's not what you fucking said in the post that you were replying to. You said that they can never change. What I'm saying precisely is that they NEED to get help and yelling at them about how they're innately evil and should live in the woods is the opposite of conducive to that.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

[(Anonymous)]

In my experience, people with BPD are more likely to refuse to get help when they're made aware that the way they're treating people is shitty. In fact, the three I've known doubled down on the abuse after being told they were being abusive.

(frozen comment) DA

[(Anonymous)]

A lot of abusive folks without BPD double down on abuse after being told they're being abusive. That's not convincing evidence that all people with BPD are inherently abusive.

All I see is someone who wants everyone with BPD to suffer because of their experience.

(frozen comment) Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I admit a part of me is a little petty and probably does want that. But to me that's just a bonus. The ideal would be for people with BPD who refuse to get treatment to just go live in a cave somewhere where they can't hurt anyone.

(frozen comment) Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

Then you know what? You're a little shit.

You don't really care about people getting hurt as much as you want your revenge.

I bet you have just as much capability to be abusive to someone.

(frozen comment) Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

Nope, I actually do care more about people not getting hurt. Revenge would just be an extra perk.

Yes, I would say everyone has equal capability for being abusive to others. The difference is, people who aren't abusive choose not to be.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

[(Anonymous)]

I sometimes wonder if I have BPD. I haven't been close with enough people since becoming an adult to really tell, and I have intimacy issues out the wazoo. I'd like to be in a romantic relationship and have friends and stuff, but I don't want to hurt anyone or risk getting hurt myself.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

[(Anonymous)]

Do you have extreme, inappropriate emotional reactions to things? Do you have a fear of abandonment such that you will stalk, harass and threaten people into being too afraid to leave you? Do you threaten self-harm or suicide in order to guilt others to staying around? Do you go through cycles of overvaluing and then devaluing and discarding friends and family?

If not, you probably don't have it.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

[(Anonymous)]

In order: Yes, no, yes (they were in danger of overdosing if they took anymore and I got a knife and threatened to kill myself if they didn't give up the bottles), what friends? and almost all my family are dead but I see the ones that aren't a couple times a year, I don't hate them or anything.