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⌈ Secret Post #3404 ⌋

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Well, no, that's fucking wrong and incredibly shitty. We're not talking about abusers in general. We're talking about people who have BPD. It is a mood disorder. It is not a moral failing. People can improve with treatment.

People with BPD are abusive unless they get help. Full stop. If they won't get help, they need to stop being around people, period.

That's not what you fucking said in the post that you were replying to. You said that they can never change. What I'm saying precisely is that they NEED to get help and yelling at them about how they're innately evil and should live in the woods is the opposite of conducive to that.

In my experience, people with BPD are more likely to refuse to get help when they're made aware that the way they're treating people is shitty. In fact, the three I've known doubled down on the abuse after being told they were being abusive.

A lot of abusive folks without BPD double down on abuse after being told they're being abusive. That's not convincing evidence that all people with BPD are inherently abusive.

All I see is someone who wants everyone with BPD to suffer because of their experience.

Yeah, I admit a part of me is a little petty and probably does want that. But to me that's just a bonus. The ideal would be for people with BPD who refuse to get treatment to just go live in a cave somewhere where they can't hurt anyone.

Then you know what? You're a little shit.

You don't really care about people getting hurt as much as you want your revenge.

I bet you have just as much capability to be abusive to someone.

Nope, I actually do care more about people not getting hurt. Revenge would just be an extra perk.

Yes, I would say everyone has equal capability for being abusive to others. The difference is, people who aren't abusive choose not to be.

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