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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-29 06:31 pm

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(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
You may not choose to be mentally ill, but you sure as fuck choose to act like a selfish, manipulative fuckpuddle about it.
belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2016-04-30 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
And what, no awareness or understanding for anyone with a BPD diagnosis?

No public campaigns for more resources and support so that people with BPD have services readily accessible to them?

We should all just perpetuate the horrible stigma attached to the diagnosis because surely this fuckery will encourage people to seek help and continue to pursue treatment?

Nope. Don't see the logic.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
The three people I've known with BPD became even more abusive when their victims told them that what they were doing is awful. So maybe I see the logic because my experience with BPD is "this is a disorder only abusive, toxic people have."

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
what you've experienced =! everyone

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
I never said it was?

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt

The symptoms of BPD are often literally those of an abuser.

From the ICD-10: liability to outbursts of anger or violence, with inability to control the resulting behavioral explosions;

Attacking people because you can't control yourself is one of the symptoms in the diagnostic criteria.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. This is what so many in this thread bitching at OP don't get. Read the diagnostic criteria for BPD. It's a checklist of abusive, toxic behavior (as with all Cluster Bs).

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
Your logic is a perfect circle.
belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2016-04-30 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
It kind of sounds like you only got to know about their BPD because they were abusive dicks? I am by no means saying an entire group of people are without fault. There are assholes in every group of people. I can't think of any group that is exempt from this. I'm saying that your experiences may be narrowing your perspective.

You probably pass people who have BPD on the street all the time. You might work with them and not even know it.

BPD awareness is really about seeing the whole picture and it doesn't make domestic violence awareness matter less. Actually, I think if anything, if you're open to it, BPD awareness could make you feel less instinctual hatred towards all BPD sufferers.

Here's a sort of fluffy, short article written by someone with BPD:
http://themighty.com/2016/02/when-i-realized-i-was-thankful-for-my-borderline-personality-diagnosis/

I hope the people in your life who were in bad situations got the help and support they needed to get out.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
Abusive behavior is literally most of the diagnostic criteria for BPD. It's not a matter of there being assholes in every group. In the case of BPD, being an asshole is a requirement for being part of the group.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
Fucking thank you.

You're the only one in this thread with sense who isn't acting on their emotions.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
I have a family member with BPD and I judge the shit out of anyone

Nope, she's totally acting on emotions. You just happen to agree with her, so it's okay if she does it.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
Oh go fuck yourself.

You literally want to discourage awareness for people with a mental disorder that could help them. I have no sympathy for you whatsoever.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
I love it when the response to me pointing out your hypocrisy is "go fuck yourself." Tells me everything I need to know.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
Your responses to any disagreement in this thread tell me all I need to know about you.

You apparently don't need a mental disorder to act like a crazy bitch. You just have a shitty personality.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
If hating people who act like abusive tools is wrong, I don't wanna be right.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
Nonny, have you been screened for BPD?

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
Telling the truth isn't perpetuating some unfair stigma.

(frozen comment) Re: Really sick of BPD Awareness

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
+1. BPD is often called some iteration of "crazy bitch syndrome" for a reason.