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fandomsecrets2016-04-29 06:31 pm
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So instead, let me come at the opposite direction: in my entire life, I have encountered THREE people I was willing to get involved with. Three. My slice of the people-I-am-willing-to-bang pie is so thin, you could fucking see your hand through it. If you include fantasy-only, the number goes up to... five. Maybe. I'm being EXTREMELY lenient here, because I don't actually FANTASIZE much either.
See, I am disabled and being romantically or sexually involved is THE single most painful, difficult thing for me. It's like sieging Rome with a plastic spoon. Sure, I can attempt it... but it takes someone really special to motivate me.
So I think it is safe to presume, OP, that my requirements in a partner are even steeper than yours.
And you know what? THAT'S A GOOD THING.
This way, I don't waste anyone's time... especially mine. When I DO end up making a move, I am damn certain that this is what I want to try. I know the things I value in the guys I want, and while I flail and fail through a great deal, at least I never end up in a situation where I'm not sure if I actually want to be with someone.
So honestly? I say rock on with your bad self. BE picky! You can always lower your standards or change them later, if it really isn't working out for you. If fandom DOES influence your standards, you can systematically change them with the media you consume. I'd say that's actually a pretty cool thing to know about yourself!