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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-29 06:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #3404 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3404 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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[personal profile] lb_lee 2016-04-30 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
You know, I was going to go on this long thing about how my husband is classically gorgeous, and my boyfriend looks like a two-bit thug from an Adam Warren comic, and I find them both smoking hot, but I realize there's actually no way to convince anyone that they too are attractive to someone.

So instead, let me come at the opposite direction: in my entire life, I have encountered THREE people I was willing to get involved with. Three. My slice of the people-I-am-willing-to-bang pie is so thin, you could fucking see your hand through it. If you include fantasy-only, the number goes up to... five. Maybe. I'm being EXTREMELY lenient here, because I don't actually FANTASIZE much either.

See, I am disabled and being romantically or sexually involved is THE single most painful, difficult thing for me. It's like sieging Rome with a plastic spoon. Sure, I can attempt it... but it takes someone really special to motivate me.

So I think it is safe to presume, OP, that my requirements in a partner are even steeper than yours.

And you know what? THAT'S A GOOD THING.

This way, I don't waste anyone's time... especially mine. When I DO end up making a move, I am damn certain that this is what I want to try. I know the things I value in the guys I want, and while I flail and fail through a great deal, at least I never end up in a situation where I'm not sure if I actually want to be with someone.

So honestly? I say rock on with your bad self. BE picky! You can always lower your standards or change them later, if it really isn't working out for you. If fandom DOES influence your standards, you can systematically change them with the media you consume. I'd say that's actually a pretty cool thing to know about yourself!