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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-14 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3419 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3419 ⌋

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Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 10:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I really thought after a certain age people would stop asking me to go drinking all the time or wondering why I just want to stay in by myself a lot.

I don't even have anything against drinking but a. it's expensive and b. when I drink heavily I usually need so much time to recover plus the actual drinking time and I just do not have the time for that anymore (I work a lot.) I've never been so into drinking that I feel the need to do it so I just stopped.

And how many "introverts exist" articles have to happen before people stop treating me weird for being antisocial. I feel like I never fit in anywhere :/

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 10:25 pm (UTC)(link)
IA. Except I do like drinking but I know it's unhealthy for me so I'm trying to cut down.

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)
SA I always enjoyed myself when I drank but I guess for me if it's a choice between drinking with friends and staying home and watching tv, I'd rather stay home and watch tv (unless it's been a long ass time since I've seen my friends, but then the drinking isn't really the motivation.)

I also need a lot of sleep so staying out drinking is harder with a full work schedule and at the age I'm at. I think I know too many people who perpetually want to feel like they're still in college.

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel you. I finally ended up purging a lot of those people from my life and luckily happened into some new friends. It's nice having a group that wants to play board games and chill and don't make fun of me when I'm ready to go to bed at 9pm.

Re: Confession Thread

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-05-14 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Man... I don't get this at all. There are plenty of activities to do where you don't have to drink.

Sounds like you should get into a different friend group. Maybe one that likes to play board games or have movie nights or do something where drinking isn't compulsory.

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
It's hard for me to meet people because I'm pretty busy and when I'm not the introvert thing kicks in and I'd really rather be alone.

And the introvert thing is part of it too, like it's not just the drinking, like I legitimately need time to recharge and people don't always seem to get that no matter how many times I explain it.

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Why do you feel like you have to drink heavily if you go out drinking, anon?

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry I didn't mean to imply that I feel like I MUST drink heavily, I was just stating the reason why when I do drink a lot it's a time consuming process.

And I should add that my version of heavily still isn't blacking out or throwing up, even when I get drunk I'm a pretty restrained drinker. But the "it takes time/makes me tired/is expensive" thing still applies.

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Understandable! I was just a bit confused because I'm not a heavy drinker myself and it's never been an issue for me to only have a drink or two when I go out with my friends.

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
ugh i hate those 'introverts exist' articles. they come as so infantilizing. "here's how to care for your introvert" like we're fucking aliens or something.

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it depends on the article, some of them are funny/true to life but I think the ones that demand that anyone make accommodations for us is a bit ridiculous.

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-05-15 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not even introverted and I'm fine with drinking socially, but I'm also sick of people in my social groups wanting to go out to drink and nothing else almost every time they're together. Just starts feeling repetitive to go to a bar or club a bunch of nights in a row.