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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-15 04:24 pm

[ SECRET POST #3420 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3420 ⌋

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Re: My house was the center of Jerry Springer-level drama this weekend

(Anonymous) 2016-05-16 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
Ugh, so sorry. I hope all involved parties can own up to their responsibility in this mess. Unless it wasn't consensual, F can't really argue it was an accident. I hope she takes it to therapy to unpack her role in it, and I hope you can carve out some quiet some for self care.
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Re: My house was the center of Jerry Springer-level drama this weekend

[personal profile] illiadandoddity 2016-05-16 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
Funny you should mention that, because F keeps changing the story. First it was because "it's been such a long time since anyone held me while I cried". Then it was her bipolar. As of this evening, she's claiming she had taken Ambien and that H took advantage of her. When this morning she was saying that she'd had a long talk with H about it afterwards and they both agreed it was a one-time thing and shouldn't ever happen again.

I honestly have no idea whether to believe her or not, because their story is just so inconsistent. I don't want to believe that H is the kind of scum who could rape someone, and I don't want to believe that F is the kind of scum who could lie about being raped to wiggle out of responsibility. But now one of those things is the case.

Re: My house was the center of Jerry Springer-level drama this weekend

(Anonymous) 2016-05-16 07:38 am (UTC)(link)
That's just terrible. :( Though not uncommon. Lots of people who cheat (or who enable cheating) find it difficult to face up to the fact that yeah, you made a bad choice for selfish reasons. You wanted to fuck someone so you did, and now you're feeling regrets because people found out and judging you for it so you come up with all sorts of excuses and rationalizations.

That's why cheaters often say things like, "it just happened" or "one thing led to another" as if they had no agency or choice in the matter. It's pathetic.