[ SECRET POST #3425 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3425 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Final Fantasy VII/Super Smash Bros]


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02.

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03.
[The Girls Next Door, Bridget Marquardt, Holly Madison, Kendra Wilkinson]


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04.
[Pokémon Sun and Moon]


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05.
[Love and Lies]


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06.
[Aoishiro]


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08.
[The Hunger Games]


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09. [SPOILERS for Houdini and Doyle]




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10. [SPOILERS for Pokemon SM]




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11. [SPOILERS for The Witcher/Dragon Age]




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12. [SPOILERS for Cupid]
[WARNING for rape, incest]




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13. [WARNING for discussion of rape]


["Blurred Lines", Robin Thicke]





























Notes:

Really early because I've got stuff to do, sorry about that.

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #488.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Mte. I don't see anything rapey about it, but encouraging cheating? Yes.

[(Anonymous)]

Please kill yourself.

[(Anonymous)]

no u

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not the rape apologist, so no.

[(Anonymous)]

Holy shit, go back to Tumblr and fucking stay there with the rest of the crazy folk.

[(Anonymous)]

no u

[kallanda_lee]

Exactly. And there's even a paragraph later on that has "the way you grab me", o yeah, she's not an unwilling bystander.

To me it was always a song about a woman who is attracted to him, but is holding off cause she's involved with someone else, and he's encouraging her to cheat. But ymmv.

[(Anonymous)]

"She was totally asking for it, man!"

Goddamn, meran_flash was right about you. You're disgusting.

[kallanda_lee]

Because, you know, wearing a cleavage is totally the same as actually initiating sexual contact?

And man, that wank is OLD. I didn't even remember the name until now.

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt, but I've been lurking here for a long while, and I don't recall ever even seeing the name meran_flash. Maybe ayrt IS meran_flash. Back from the archives.

[kallanda_lee]

meran_flash, unfortunately, was the SJW who introduced me to the term "rape culture", (back on lj, I believe) which at that point, I had never heard before. This happened during Assange wank.

It went about as well as you'd expect from that description.

But like...this would be 2007, 2008? That's a looooong hateboner.

[(Anonymous)]

And once you've initiated, whatever you then do or decide is vitiated, right?

NO.

[kallanda_lee]

Never said that, though a guy singing dirty sexual content to a woman who was initiating, is a very different story than doing it to a woman who is clearly uninterested.

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt

I always read "the way you grab me/must wanna get nasty" as her "grabbing" his attention. So the assumption that all hot women he's sexually attracted too are "nasty" and secretly welcoming his attention was really skeevy. I assumed this because the rest of the lyrics seem to imply she's acting like a "good girl".

So that was my first interpretation, but apparently other people see it the exact opposite, where "the way you grab me" is his interest being returned.

I honestly never cared that much and the infidelity interpretation makes sense as well (even if I think the song is gross anyway) but apparently we're talking about this song again and I'm still confused about this.

[kallanda_lee]

Interesting! I always interpreted it as literal (like her literally putting her hands on him), but now I see that your interpretation is possible, too, and that does make it creepier.

Frankly I never cared that much either - I'm not a fan of Thicke, but I wont turn if off it it comes on the radio. Its catchy enough. I was just baffled at the outrage.

[(Anonymous)]

No. Women can't be sexually aggressive towards men. Nor can they make the first moves.

[raspberryrain]

Are--are you in Japan?

OK, I know you're being sarcastic.

[kallanda_lee]

You're trolling, right? please tell me you're trolling.

[(Anonymous)]

Actually screaming here. omg lol.