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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-17 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3453 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3453 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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03. [SPOILERS for SnK]



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04. [SPOILERS for Shadowhunters]



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05. [SPOILERS for Attack On Titan/Shingeki no Kyojin]



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06. [WARNING for RL family death]



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07. [WARNING for abuse]



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08. [WARNING for RL underage sex]

[Lori Maddox, Sable Starr]


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09. [WARNING for child sexual abuse]



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10. [WARNING for incest]

[Wynonna Earp]



















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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #493.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
sarillia: (Default)

Re: Wank Thread

[personal profile] sarillia 2016-06-18 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
I guess this works as a place to complain.

My friend started drunkenly hitting on me and then got offended when I asked him to stop. He left me a voicemail apologizing for the insults it led to, but that apology spent more time making excuses than actually saying sorry. He was just so hurt by what I said. What I said: "I'm really uncomfortable right now. It's nothing personal; I don't want anyone talking to me like that. Please stop."

And there goes my phone again. I wonder if the second attempt at an apology will be better.

Re: Wank Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-18 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
That's terrible, I'm sorry, you're in the right here, so
grausam: (Default)

Re: Wank Thread

[personal profile] grausam 2016-06-18 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
sorry, that sucks. I hope he realizes his bs behavior.

Re: Wank Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-18 10:22 am (UTC)(link)
driveby username <3
grausam: (heart)

Re: Wank Thread

[personal profile] grausam 2016-06-18 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)
heh, thanks :D?

Re: Wank Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-18 08:03 am (UTC)(link)
It's not genetic or anything, men don't need to all be terrible, but for god knows whatever reason they all are.

Re: Wank Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-18 09:26 am (UTC)(link)
Is he always an insufferable whiner, or just sometimes?

Re: Wank Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-18 10:20 am (UTC)(link)
So, the world revolves around him only? Your feelings is just handy to step on when needed? This doesn't sound like much of a friend, just some horny chauvinist that blames you for making his hormones jump. Don't take any whit from him, it'll be you who regrets it later.

Re: Wank Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-18 10:21 am (UTC)(link)
*shit, dammit

Re: Wank Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-18 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Been in a similar situation. A lot of his "apology" was focused on how my actions made him feel bad. So anytime he said something like that I responded calmly with a reminder that his actions were still making me feel uncomftable and upset - basically reminding him that we both *shock* had emotions. It didn't fix things but it calmed the conversation and made me feel like I'd expressed my feelings. Might work in this situation?