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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-19 02:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #3455 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3455 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-06-20 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
Once my roommate yelled at me for using what was apparently her bacon (I thought it was communal bacon cause at the time we shared food and I didn't know that the bacon had a clear delineation.) I apologized, explained how I had gotten the wrong impression, and replaced her bacon.

Since then I have always been sure to buy my own bacon and really all our food has been pretty separate except for condiments.

...And I just caught her using my bacon. I know its mine cause I buy a different brand. After she made a huge fuss.

I'm so bitter and petty. I am tempted to make the same level fuss she did. I probably won't, but oh boy am I tempted.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-20 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
Do it. That's not petty. That's following the rules that she defined. She cannot have it both ways, and you need to establish that now.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-20 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
I'm moving out when my lease is up which is in about a month(this is not the only conflict we have had also I found a cheaper place) so I just don't know if its worth it this late in the game. Its just like... I'm annoyed. This is a rule she made.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-20 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
You could just go, "Really? After you made a big stink about me using your bacon?"

I wouldn't expect anything from her though. She is either being vindictive or else did it by accident and the self-awareness is lost on her.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-20 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't throw a tantrum, but I'd definitely point out that it was your bacon, and the reason why you bought your own bacon was because she was so upset when you thought her bacon was fair game. Then ask her how she wants to handle this... is there food that's communal property, and if so, how do you mark it so that people know it's up for grabs? Or is it a case where what's hers is hers and what's yours and yours, and no sharing?

Then let her know where you bought your bacon so she can replace it. Let her know this even if you know she knows where you bought it, and ask her to replace it within say, a week because you have a meal planned that involves bacon. Even if that's not true.