[ SECRET POST #3464 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3464 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Do you have any triggers?

[herpymcderp]

Nope. I don't have many squicks either (although people calling their lovers "daddy" happens to be a mild squick so I chose a real bad time to be a bisexual man).

Re: Do you have any triggers?

[kallanda_lee]

I have the same thing with the daddy thing. though it's less of a problem when you're a woman, but still I'd nope out of that so hard in a sexual situation.

Re: Do you have any triggers?

[herpymcderp]

Few things make me nope out faster. Just... fucking NOPE. Instant boner kill.

Re: Do you have any triggers?

[(Anonymous)]

I'm a woman and I hate that because my best friend is an incest survivor.

Re: Do you have any triggers?

[elaminator]

I get that.

Not into the daddy thing. I'll admit I've read fic where it was used (in a more casual, sparing manner), but anything focusing heavily on daddy kink... Just doesn't work for me. I'm not even disgusted, I just don't understand it and it doesn't turn me on.

Which is unfortunate when in certain fandoms.

Re: Do you have any triggers?

[(Anonymous)]

na

Which is unfortunate when in certain fandoms.

Icon relevant, I assume? :)

Re: Do you have any triggers?

[elaminator]

Haha, yes.

Granted, I haven't read fic lately, and even back then it wasn't unavoidable, but it was gaining traction and with the way tumblr talks about it, I felt like the odd one out.

I get a chuckle out of all the people calling Colin Firth “daddy”, but that's about it.

Re: Do you have any triggers?

[herpymcderp]

Well I find the whole implied dominance via familial relationship thing really kind of gross. It goes against everything I stand for as a proponent of egalitarian relationships, and it's just... no? Being a dad doesn't mean that? Being older doesn't mean that?

Like, okay, have all the D/s you like but don't force that interpretation onto something routine like, idk, being a dad. Men do not automatically own or dominate their own family members. Blech.

Re: Do you have any triggers?

[(Anonymous)]

Way to kink shame.

A point of curiosity

[feotakahari]

I once read part of a Metal Gear fancomic in which various characters referred to their leader as "Mom," including one who was romantically involved with her. Would that gross you out the same way as "daddy?"

Re: A point of curiosity

[herpymcderp]

Depends on the context, really. The idea of a "team mom" is way different than involving some kind of daddy or mommy kink in either fic or RL. Referring to someone as a parental figure outside the bedroom =/= inside the bedroom. It's also different if, say, people who are parents or prospective parents go around calling each other "mom" and "dad".

Usually an older man asking a younger lover to call him daddy is NOT THAT. It generally implies ownership and innate authority in a way I find really disgusting (and also different from a master/slave relationship in that the M/s titles don't automatically invoke age or gender dynamics). Plus, the incest connotations don't really help.

I have yet to find something with quite those implications in an older woman/younger partner scenario, but I imagine if I did I would also be fairly squicked.

Edit: I'm actually less squicked by scenarios that are literal incest than these sorts of kinks. It's infinitely less creepy to me that someone would just come out and call an apple an apple instead of inserting a weird sexual dominance situation into their views of familial relationships.