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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-07-19 06:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #3485 ]


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sarillia: (Default)

Re: Venting Thread

[personal profile] sarillia 2016-07-19 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
My brother's girlfriend has made it nearly impossible to talk to my brother alone and since the choice is between talking to both of them or neither and I can't deal with her sometimes I don't talk to my brother as much as I'd like. Today my friend passed along a text he got from her where she asked how I was doing and he asked her why she didn't just ask me personally. She went on about how my brother and I are bad at keeping in touch and how if she had siblings she would try harder but her sister died in the womb. She actually brought that up out of nowhere. Now I'm remembering all the times when she stopped me and my brother from spending time together and feeling annoyed all over again.
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Venting Thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-07-20 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
Haven't you talked about her before? She sounds like a major piece of work.

Would it help to let your brother know you think your relationship with him is deteriorating because you haven't spent one-on-one time with him lately?
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Re: Venting Thread

[personal profile] sarillia 2016-07-20 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
I complain about her all the time. She's the one person in the world I actively dislike. I don't like disliking people so I can usually talk myself down to feeling neutral, but I can't do it with her.

And I can't talk to my brother without her hearing what I say. She's not above reading his texts and emails. She's also not above accusing me of trying to control her if I make a complaint.
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Re: Venting Thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-07-20 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly, if you text him that without mentioning her name, and she reads it and takes it personally, she's being a drama queen. Maybe don't make it about her? Just make it about you and your bro. Don't say she's the reason you haven't been doing much with him, just indicate you'd like to spend some one-on-one time with him soon.