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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-04 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3501 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3501 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-08-04 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't really have any advice, unfortunately. Most of my celebrity crushes have been musicians so I've been in the "no characters to daydream about instead" situation, but I haven't really had problems daydreaming about real people. When it was someone who was in a relationship, I would just pretend that they weren't when I fantasized about them, but it sounds like that's harder to do when he talks about his personal life in his videos.

Although I do have my own awkward "how do I ignore the fact that he's in a relationship now?" story. I had (and am still in the middle of) a celebrity crush who I would have fantasies about despite knowing he's already in a relationship, because as I said above, I could just ignore that fact as I did with all my celebrity crushes. Then I found out he has a tattoo of his girlfriend's name, and immediately felt extremely uncomfortable. Aside from finding relationship-related tattoos tacky as hell and a horrible idea, for a while after I found out, I had a hard time daydreaming about him because I would get the incredibly uncomfortable mental image of trying to hook up with him and seeing the tattoo. Eventually, I just sort of managed to force myself to pretend I never found out about it and go back to my silly self-insert fantasies, but now I know how it feels when there's a certain factor that makes the whole "but he's in a relationship!" thing hard to ignore.