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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-04 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3501 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3501 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-08-05 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
why feel guilty? it's never gonna happen irl

(Anonymous) 2016-08-05 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
But, for some people, isn't part of the fantasy the dream that it could happen 'IRL'? I actually know where the OP is coming from, here. I have fantasies of meeting celebrities, in a realistic scenario and hooking up, and if they're married that makes the fantasy problematic. Yes, it is 'just a fantasy' and yes, the reality is that I'm never going to meet them, but, I'm aware that the celebrity has a life of their own and that tends to colour the fantasy (ie we're not having sex on a trip to Mars, with the ghost of William Shakespeare-although that would be interesting...). Actually, this is why I now tend to just stick to fantasising about characters.

(Anonymous) 2016-08-05 04:45 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, so suppose it could happen.

Would you still be attracted to the married guy if he decided to take things further with you? Even though him being happily married is what drew you to him in the first place / is the main part of the appeal (like in OP's situation)?

Wouldn't it be like having sex with a different person?

I guess I'm just having trouble imagining the guilt when there's no logical reason for it, or you could just embrace it.