[ SECRET POST #3503 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3503 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Advice Thread

[(Anonymous)]

Have a serious think about whether or not you actually need to say it, what you hope you gain from it (do you want to enlighten them? Rattle their cage? Mic drop and exit?), and whether or not the inevitable fallout will be worth saying your piece.

To be honest, I don't think that phrasing will achieve very much. You surely know that the person in question is unlikely to see themselves as abusive, and such a vague label will make it easier for them to dismiss you for being wimpy and oversensitive. If you want to really nail it to someone, focus on specific behaviors, i.e. "When you belittle my choice of career, that's a shitty thing to do".

Or just go no contact. Not having the toxicity in your life feels better than having the last word.