[ SECRET POST #3507 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3507 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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[Shameless (US Version)]


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[Breaking Bad]


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[Movie: Mr. Right]


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[Sherlock Holmes]


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[Jacob Frye/Maxwell Roth, Assassin's Creed Syndicate]


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[Gravity Rush]











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Comments

OP

[(Anonymous)]

Already seen the replies coming in; I am going to, I just can't right now because it's definitely not a good time to be stirring up a big emotional upheaval in both our lives. I need to wait it out a few weeks and getting it off my chest in the meantime. Thanks for telling it like it is though, F!S.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

There's really no such thing as a good time to break up, OP. But good luck and I hope it goes as painlessly as possible for both of you.

Re: OP

[diet_poison]

Yeah, but there are bad times.

I once came to the conclusion that I was going to break up with a guy a little bit before Christmas (which we both celebrate) and waited until a few days after. I wasn't really interacting with him in the interim, so it wasn't a big deal to wait a bit. I just didn't want to be the douche who broke up with someone on Christmas.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Fair enough, but let's be real here... everyone knows you were thinking about it and that the date is the only reason you waited. I'm not sure that's a huge benefit, tbh.

Re: OP

[diet_poison]

that's true. I was going on a bit of a tangent - I don't know the specifics of OP's situation.

Though I would argue that if it's "my SO's parent/sibling/best friend just died" it would be nice to wait a little bit - at least until after the funeral.

Re: OP

[sarillia]

I know that feeling. I waited through several "bad times" and finally just did it and it was a relief to finally be done with it. I hope things go smoothly once you're ready.

Re: OP

[caerbannog]

There won't be a good time for both of you anon. :( good luck!

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Good luck OP! Breaking up is never easy. Just be gentle about it when the time finally comes.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Honestly? The longer you wait, the worse it is. I know you're probably looking for a time when you're both emotionally prepared but breaking up will be a difficult time regardless of when it happens. Letting him get back on his feet and then pulling out the rug again might be worse rather than better.