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[ SECRET POST #3508 ]

⌈ Secret Post #3508 ⌋

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are you sad today? why? I'm fucking sad right now, let's wallow.

my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. I'm pretty sure it's just a panic-mode snap decision because his reasoning is (because his work just reallly took off in the exact way he's always dreamed of) he can't give me all the time and attention he wants to and also give his work stuff the focus it needs

I feel like he'll wake up soon, realize he can balance his stuff, and come back begging. I shouldn't take him back because of SELF RESPECT, but I love him, so.

.....but what if I'm wrong :( and even if I'm right, right now I'm just miserable.

Can you tell him that? That sometimes one of you will be really busy and not around all the time but as grown adults you can adapt and deal?

I did. he hasn't budged. this is what makes me think more than anything that his brain is in panic mode, because he's not usually a stone wall of a person.

Re: sadness thread

caerbannog - 2016-08-12 00:24 (UTC) - Expand

Re: sadness thread

(Anonymous) - 2016-08-12 00:47 (UTC) - Expand

I'm just sad in general, cause I don't really feel my life is going anywhere I want it to right now.

I know that feeling. Hopefully things will get better.

Re: sadness thread

kallanda_lee - 2016-08-12 08:11 (UTC) - Expand

My dog is sick, she has an ear infection and a UTI, but we're not sure about the UTI because she didn't pee for the vet to provide a sample, so I have to take her back tomorrow morning and hopefully she will pee for them.

oh no :( good luck!

Re: sadness thread

(Anonymous) - 2016-08-12 00:30 (UTC) - Expand

Your vet should be able to get a sterile sample if you still can't collect some (picture a small tube inserted up dog into bladder...) usually costs more tho

Good luck dog!

I'm sad because of various stressful things at work and I'm finally home and alone and feel like I could really use a good cry and then I'd feel better, but there are no tears coming.

you could read up on the loneliest whale

or watch 12 years a slave

or uh, find that sarah maclauchlan commercial with all the fucked up animals. that's gotta be on youtube

I realize this is probably a weird comment but if you want a good cry there are ways

I can never seem to cry when it would actually relieve stress instead of making it worse. I start crying in front of other people and wish I was alone so I could just get it out but then when I am alone the tears won't come anymore.

*wordless hug*

I hope you find relief soon, nonny. That feeling sucks. My go-to is the Buffy episode "The Body", I end up a sobbing mess by the end of the show.

I got my period this week for the first time in 2 years (I have an iud) and my boobs grew like 3 inches in 2 days

I started crying the other day because I loved having smaller boobs. it was the first time since like 4th grade that I could walk around braless, wake up without my neck and back hurting every single day, feel stuffy and gross and oddly not very feminine at all.

feeling much better today, but I really need my small breasts back because this is triggering af for me

I'm sad for the stupidest reasons. Sad because I'll never have a legit Arceus on ORAS or XY. Sad because one of my favorite villagers from New Leaf moved out. Sad because I can't even get a fanfic wrote down even though I have a plotbunny just nagging me.

I'm still sad about one of my favorite villagers moving out in Animal Crossing too. He left me a picture of him and I immediately put it on display in my house.

Make a post in December and if Pokemon is still doing late promos in their news letter, I can give you a copy for a Arceus code. I also have Darkrai code if you want it.

The rest of the day wasn't bad, but I had another one of my customary anxiety dreams that involved a friend being terrible to me. I get these time to time. Either it's my friends hating each other and making me choose between them or them hating me and making me feel like shit.

This is why the paranormal doesn't scare me. There's no way to know if it's real, whereas people in your life can very much hurt you or people you care about.

What are you sad about, OP? I'm prepared to sympathize!

Aw, thanks, man. If you're still hangin' round I was the first commenter beneath the initial comment - just got dumped.

I haven't been here in maybe a couple of weeks. I'm not even sure because I've been having so much trouble keeping track of time. I can't remember much of anything and I keep asking people the same questions without realising. I'm sorry if I didn't reply to anyone on here.

I hope everything's okay!

Re: sadness thread

belladonna_took - 2016-08-12 04:38 (UTC) - Expand

I just feel so brutally ugly and disgusting and unlovable and I just go outside and walk around and everyone I see looks so good and normal and awesome and I just feel like an utter, utter toad. Just repulsive and untouchable. I honestly feel sometimes like I can't believe people are willing to hang out with me in real life because it must be so awful.

I'm currently watching by best friend of more than 30 years self-destruct from a combination of drugs and a shitty enabling SO and there is nothing I can do about it. It's breaking my heart.

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