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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-21 03:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #3518 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3518 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Star Trek: Voyager]


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[Voltron]


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[Up the Women]


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[Digimon Adventure 02]


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[Assassin's Creed: Syndicate]


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[The Sims]


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[The X-Files]


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[Letterkenny, Stewart/Katy]












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Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

(Anonymous) 2016-08-21 08:37 pm (UTC)(link)
To my parents: "You blew your chance for me to forgive you."
sparrow_lately: (max)

Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-08-21 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
edging into this territory myself

Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

(Anonymous) 2016-08-21 08:43 pm (UTC)(link)
<3 solidarity
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Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-08-21 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not yet, but like sometimes I genuinely wonder: how did I come from you? How could ou have raised me, how can we share the same blood an see the world so differently, you know?
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Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-08-22 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
I really, really, really, really, really, really do know. :/

Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

(Anonymous) 2016-08-21 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't mind forgiving my mother, but I'm not going to forget and play happy families either. She gets letters, christmas and birthday cards, and that is it.

Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

(Anonymous) 2016-08-21 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)
good system

Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

(Anonymous) 2016-08-22 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
That's fair, IMO. Some relationships are best sustained through limited contact only.

Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

(Anonymous) 2016-08-22 05:25 pm (UTC)(link)
My boyfriend's relationship with his mom is like this. His childhood was one filled with neglect and she basically treated him like you would a pet - she wanted a companion who'd love her unconditionally, but only when she had time for him. When he got in the way of her pursuing her relationships with abusive assholes, she shipped him off to relatives.

He doesn't hate her, but they don't have a relationship. There's been too much water under the bridge and she's still a pretty selfish person. But at the same time, she claims to be confused as to why they aren't best friends and she absolutely refuses to consider that maybe his crappy childhood had a lot to do with that.

Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

(Anonymous) 2016-08-22 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
Yup. It's like after twenty or thirty years or so, the lightbulb might have gone off in their heads about their awful behavior. I'm all for reconciling when the other person is genuinely sorry and makes an effort to not hurt you again, but some folks really have made the fuck out of their own beds.