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Let's get controversial. What's that one kink you cannot stand or understand?

Age play in real life. In fiction, doesn't bother me. But in real life, it makes me uncomfortable because I wonder if one of the people is playing younger because the other person actually likes underage partners and is making do with the fantasy. And that is just creepy in my mind. Though I'm glad they aren't actually harming someone who can't consent, it still bothers me when people have those desires.

This is more or less my answer. In fiction, whatever, it's a fantasy so while it's not my Cup of Tea, I really don't care. But IRL it freaks me out.

Re: What is the kink you cannot apply "YKINMK" to?

philstar22 - 2016-08-26 01:30 (UTC) - Expand

It's not. One of the perennial problems in the ageplay community is that there are WAY more people wanting to be littles than wanting to be parental figures. The math simply doesn't support your fear.

da

(Anonymous) - 2016-08-26 10:23 (UTC) - Expand

AYRT

(Anonymous) - 2016-08-26 22:08 (UTC) - Expand

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) - 2016-08-28 10:44 (UTC) - Expand

outside of, like, actual pedophilia etc.?

probably the furries

Anything involving poop or pee. I just cannot imagine or understand the desire to want someone to do that to you, or to want to do it to someone else.

+1 and I'm also adding vomit to the list

Re: What is the kink you cannot apply "YKINMK" to?

(Anonymous) - 2016-08-26 01:52 (UTC) - Expand

ugh. this.

Attraction to disability AKA devotism

I'm not upset that people are attracted to others with disabilities, it's how the devotees go about it. They take pics and videos of people with disabilities without the subject's knowledge or consent and then post them online because ~omg don't be upset we're just admiring~. It's dehumanizing. They often don't see their objects of admiration as real people.
In my experience, this kinda thing isn't just limited to fics and art. People gotta have the real thing too, if they can find it.

I have that attraction, and I agree with you, but I can also sort of explain it to you.

It's desperation, pure and simple, as it's a numbers game and most devotees won't ever actually have a relationship with a person with a disability, and over the years this can manifest in creepy,desperate behavior.

That being said, it's one of the major reasons why I stopped participating in that community online.

Re: What is the kink you cannot apply "YKINMK" to?

(Anonymous) - 2016-08-26 15:32 (UTC) - Expand

A lot of "dirty" language involving or during sex seems very unarousing to me. Are you making love, or are you starting a bar fight in Glasgow?

Oh, yes.

Especially the way I've heard some younger guys talk about sex - it's all destroy, rape (to refer to consensual sex), annihilate, obliterate. I don't want to feel like the person would be just as happy beating me to death as sleeping with me.

Bugchasing/giftgiving.

I mean...WHY would you want to voluntarily get HIV? On the other hand, WHY would you want to infect someone with it? I get the whole "taboo" or "thrill" aspect but...there's less deadly kinks out there that have the same effects. Why go around spreading a nasty, incurable disease?

This is a thing? There was an episode of Judging Amy where a homeless teenager took drugs from a needed used by someone HIV positive so he could get into a home of some sort for HIV positive people. But I didn't think that was an actual thing in real life.

Re: What is the kink you cannot apply "YKINMK" to?

dancingmouse - 2016-08-26 02:04 (UTC) - Expand

Yeah wouldn't something like...the clap, or herpes, or some other less life-destroying STD hit this kink just as well?

Unless it partly involved some kind of homophobia-in-the-'80s-'90s sort of plot, which goes beyond the realm of kink IMO...

I... I didn't know that was a thing. Oh God, no.

Re: What is the kink you cannot apply "YKINMK" to?

(Anonymous) - 2016-08-26 22:52 (UTC) - Expand

I know that these are extremely common, but I hate the "slavery" worlds where all of the characters are totally in favor of it. Beyond the RL implications, these AUs are downright disturbing. I read one and felt like I wanted to throw up afterwards.

There is an absolute absence of goodness and decency in these worlds - I just don't understand how someone could find that sexy.

I'm sure that many will disagree with me. I don't really judge people for reading them. I'll just never, ever get it.

None of them (as long as everybody involved is able to consent and consenting if it's real life, and stuff). I don't know if this is most or least controversial.

Edited 2016-08-26 02:25 (UTC)

+1

there are a lot of kinks that I'm not personally comfortable with doing but if a couple of consenting weirdos want to run around wearing diapers or pretend that they're a dog/child/smurf/etc in the privacy of their own home, then I don't give a shit. I'm definitely not about to get all sanctimonious about it

Same. I got too much going on in my own life to give too much of a shit what consenting adults do to get their jollies.

+1

There are plenty of things that I don't want to know even exist, but hey, consenting adults.

Same here.

Like there are plenty of kinks that I just do not get at all and wouldn't personally participate in, but so long as the people involved are consenting adults then I do not care what people get up to in the bedroom.

Re: What is the kink you cannot apply "YKINMK" to?

(Anonymous) - 2016-08-26 19:41 (UTC) - Expand

There's nothing I can't stand so long as it's all safe, sane, and consensual. But I can't understand foot fetishes at all. Everything else I can understand from the standpoint of it being forbidden/naughty/violent/whatever (scat, vore, ageplay, TPE, whatever the kink), but feet I just don't get.

In real life? Ones that involve other people without their consent.

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