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⌈ Secret Post #3525 ⌋

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Re: feeling bad

[(Anonymous)]

That sucks and I'm sorry. It's hard to say what the problem might be, though. It could be your friends are thoughtless jerks. Maybe they're clique-ish and don't realize just how much. Maybe... and I hesitate to suggest this because it sounds like you're already down and prone to over analyzing, but if it IS you, what you think might be the problem? This kind of soul searching is most effective if you can be honest without wallowing in self pity or letting your anxieties get the better of you, so it doesn't work for everyone.

A few things to think about:

* Are you a good friend to have? Do you listen to people, do you reciprocate when people give you attention or do you favors? Are you punctual and reliable, as in, do you do what you say you'll do or do you flake a lot? How's your personal hygiene?

* Do you ask a lot of people emotionally? Are you always down, do you complain about life, do you throw pity parties for one, do you complain about everything, all the time and expect other people to be your emotional dumping ground? Negative people are hard to be around.

* Are you a happy, self-fulfilled person? When people are sad and insecure, they project that in ways they're not even aware of most of the time. It manifests in clinginess and self centeredness, usually, but it can take a lot of forms. Insecure people often regularly demand affirmation that they're not boring, not a horrible person, etc. etc. and a lot of this can be very emotionally draining to be around.


Don't chase after people who don't want you, anon. Work on yourself, and work on being happy with yourself. Start new hobbies, pursue new interests, do things that get you out of the house to meet new people. People are drawn to those who are happy, self confident and passionate about something. Be that person.