[ SECRET POST #3546 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3546 ⌋

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Comments

[kallanda_lee]

This is honestly always what bothered me and why I tend to bitch about SJW's and "trigger warnings".

It's not because I don't think those things are real - it's because someone wanting a trigger for pomegranates or whatever (yes, that is a real case) absolutely devalues real-life trauma (and mental illness in general).

Anyway, OP, I'm sorry about your brother and I hope he's getting help. Be there for him, if you can.

[(Anonymous)]

To me one of the biggest problems with the tumblr mentality of 'trigger warnings' is they really make no distinction from 'this is a thing that can trigger people' and 'this is a bad thing'

So you get two camps going on of "The phrase 'dynamite gal' isn't a bad phrase! It's not a real trigger! How can that be a real trigger? It's such an innocent phrase." and the "Anyone who supports it being ok for people to just spout off 'dynamite gal' like it's nothing are abusive and horrible. It's a gross abusive phrase."

When the reality is "Because of past traumatic events this phrase is triggering to this one specific person and does legitimately hurt them, so it's good for people to make reasonable accommodations for this person, but yes for everyone else it's just an innocent phrase."

[world_eater]

appreciate the reference in your example (at least I hope it was a reference and not smth that's a real thing people argue about...)

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT - Absolutely a reference

THIS IS AN ACTUAL CW LIST FROM A FB GROUP (what happened here?)

[insanenoodlyguy]

Content Warnings: What They Are and How to Use Them

We use content warnings (CW for short) to warn people when the content of a post might cause an extremely strong negative emotional response or a flashback to a traumatic experience, or provoke a phobia. To keep this a safe space for everyone, when you are writing about anything related to one of these warnings in a post or a comment, please write "CW: [name]" as its own line at the beginning, followed by ten lines of dots or dashes like this.
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so that the post goes under a “read more” cut. That way, people who are affected by these topics can avoid the post while everyone else can continue with the discussion. Please also delete preview images for topics on the list such as specific animals, extreme weather, or gore.

The following is a list of topics that people in the group have asked to be placed on the list. This means that these aren’t “guesses” – they’re real, important concerns and need to be tagged with a warning beforehand (common or otherwise). The CWs have been categorized to help people remember what types of content need warnings, but it is important to write the specific CW when tagging a post or comment. (For example, CW: Violence [assualt]) If you forget to tag a post, don’t worry, we won’t blow up at you; we simply ask that you not make the same mistake again. [Note: When giving a reminder, it helps to be polite. A simple, "Hey, could you please CW for 'fill in the blank'" works just fine]

If you'd like to add something to the list, please contact a {redatcted}(admin), and we will add it to the list without questioning you or asking why. We ask that you imagine people complexly here - everyone has had different experiences and others may not have the advantages that you do, so out of trust and respect to everyone in {redatcted}, please don't post in the group asking for explanations of why certain topics are listed. If you do have questions, feel free to contact {redatcted} and we will answer them to the best of our ability! Additionally, if a topic is not on the list, it does not need a CW (unless a new CW is requested for the topic) and we ask that people don't use unnecessary CWs, as it has the effect of trivializing the system.

NEW CWS:

Elliot Rodger
Monkeys/Apes

Sex
▪ prostitution/solicitation
▪ graphic sexual terms
▪ abortion
▪ sexual disorders including dysfunction
▪ genitalia
▪ Daniel Tosh
▪ Mike Lombardo
▪ Robin Thicke
▪ celebrities manipulating and abusing fans
Violence
▪ assault and battery
▪ murder
▪ sexual violence
▪ guns
▪ missing persons
▪ car accidents
▪ death
▪ pet death (specifically of unnatural causes)
▪ gore
▪ war
▪ the draft
▪ the armed forces (the military)
▪ deployment
▪ the Holocaust
▪ nooses and hanging
▪ bullying, Hannibal
▪ Justin Bieber
▪ Grand Theft Auto
▪ Call of Duty
▪ Spec Ops: The Line
▪ Home invasion
Politics
▪ the armed forces
▪ the draft
▪ George Zimmerman
▪ LGBTQ+ issues (please specify): [Westboro Baptist Church, Macklemore and Same Love, pride parades, drag]
▪ elections
▪ political theory
▪ debates
▪ censorship
▪ 1992 Summer Olympics
▪ Syria
Religion
▪ Wicca
▪ nuns
▪ Westboro Baptist Church
▪ discrimination
▪ antisemitism
Medical
▪ cancer
▪ death
▪ self harm/injury (please do not tag as "cutting")
▪ suicide, murder
▪ assault and battery
▪ the Holocaust
▪ fire
▪ hospitalization
▪ pregnancy and childbirth
▪ food (intake) and weight (specify if numbers)
▪ Alzheimer’s
Mental Illness
▪ anxiety disorders [phobias*, OCD, generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, family relations, and social anxiety disorder]
▪ mood disorders [MDD, SAD, mania, and bipolar disorder], psychotic disorders [schizophrenia]
▪ eating disorders [anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, binge eating disorder, and Feeding and Eating Disorders not Elsewhere Classified (FEDNEC) (including cannibalism and self-cannibalism)]
▪ impulse control and addiction disorders [alcohol and drug use and abuse, and any other addiction]
▪ personality disorder [schizoid, obsessive-compulsive personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, etc.]
▪ adjustment disorder
▪ dissociative disorders [DID]
▪ factitious disorders
▪ somatoform disorders, and Tic disorders [Tourette’s]
▪ sleep-related problems [insomnia], dementia
▪ self injury
▪ suicide
▪ Infantilization
▪ Inpatient, Therapeutic Wilderness Programs
Disasters
▪ apocalypse
▪ weather [gloomy/rainy weather, tornadoes, hurricanes, thunderstorms]
▪ fires
▪ shootings (Virginia Tech, Santa Barbara)
Harassment
▪ bigotry [racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, misandry, misogyny, and slurs]
▪ bullying
▪ appropriation
▪ discrimination
▪ vulgar or strong language (heavy cursing)
▪ jokes about or related to race, gender, or sexuality [This includes the majorities in those categories]
School
▪ college, [acceptance and rejection]
▪ stress
▪ classes
The Supernatural
▪ American Horror Story
▪ Pinocchio
▪ Jessica Lange
▪ the Apocalypse
▪ Ouija Boards
▪ zombies
▪ vampires
▪ sorcery
▪ Wicca
▪ Watchmen
▪ Willy Wonka/Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
Relationships
▪ family problems
▪ family relationships
▪ unrequited love
▪ divorce
▪ abusive relationships
▪ relationships ending, even if peacefully
People
▪ Daniel Tosh
▪ Mike Lombardo
▪ Robin Thicke
▪ Justin Bieber
▪ Jessica Lange
▪ Elliot Rodger
*phobias:
▪ cats (specifically Siamese cats and angry or hostile looking cats/grump cat),
▪ donkeys (and specifically sounds and people in donkey costumes),
▪ insects (and particularly stinkbugs and cockroaches),
▪ spiders (arachnophobia),
▪ zebra stripes,
▪ eyes (ommetaphobia),
▪ space (the movie Gravity),
▪ bottomless pits,
▪ small holes (trypophobia),
▪ vomiting (emetophobia),
▪ knees (genuphobia),
▪ large bodies of water,
▪ the ocean (thalassophobia) (specifically the Mariana trench),
▪ pregnancy/childbirth (tokophobia)
▪ needles and blood (trypanophobia and hemophobia)
▪ zombies
▪ monkeys/apes
▪ phagophobia (fear of swallowing) specifically pills
Misc.:
▪ Leaving the group
▪ Frozen (movie)
▪ ^.^ as an emoticon, or really anything with the ^'s in it

Re: THIS IS AN ACTUAL CW LIST FROM A FB GROUP (what happened here?)

[(Anonymous)]

▪ ^.^ as an emoticon, or really anything with the ^'s in it

Do I even want to know what the issue is with this?

Wow. So...how exactly do people handle any discussion of, or encounters with, any of this stuff in places offline, where content warnings aren't going to be as readily available?

Re: THIS IS AN ACTUAL CW LIST FROM A FB GROUP (what happened here?)

[(Anonymous)]

BRB, goigling what happened at the 1992 summer olympics.

Re: THIS IS AN ACTUAL CW LIST FROM A FB GROUP (what happened here?)

[(Anonymous)]

I'm still not sure what's so triggering about the 1992 summer olympics.

Re: THIS IS AN ACTUAL CW LIST FROM A FB GROUP (what happened here?)

[(Anonymous)]

My immediate thought was tgat it was the one with the bombing, but that was 1994... *shrug*

Re: THIS IS AN ACTUAL CW LIST FROM A FB GROUP (what happened here?)

[(Anonymous)]

GRUMPY CAT is a trigger?

Re: THIS IS AN ACTUAL CW LIST FROM A FB GROUP (what happened here?)

[dahli]

▪ Leaving the group

Confirmed cultist.

Re: THIS IS AN ACTUAL CW LIST FROM A FB GROUP (what happened here?)

[(Anonymous)]

"...and we ask that people don't use unnecessary CWs, as it has the effect of trivializing the system."

OK

[(Anonymous)]

Well, yeah, it's not that pomegranates can't be a trigger to someone, it's expecting the entire internet to turn around and cater to your needs rather than protecting yourself. If you ask your small flist to please not post pomegranates, that's okay because you're building a community norm. If you expect the whole of the internet to tag for everything ever, then no.

[fishnchips]

The pomegranate thing was pretty weird because it wasn't even about the pomegranate itself, but rather because some person thought the picture of an opened pomegranate looked like gore and wanted the OP to tag the pomegranate for gore.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh god I remember that incident!