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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-09-18 03:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #3546 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3546 ⌋

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Re: Question Bout Privilege

(Anonymous) 2016-09-19 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
I would say the most important thing is attitude. The privileged person/group needs to be willing to take responsibility for their ignorance and show a willingness to do what research they can on their own, and be appreciative and willing to compensate people who are willing and able to help them. And also to pitch in and help others when appropriate.

Attitude goes a long way. Like I remember seeing an adorable series of tweets where a man just moved in with his GF and he was super-excited because she was teaching him all this stuff about taking care of the house that no one else had bothered to ever tell him and he was so excited and happy and praising her. There was no "Lol gf tried to tell me how to use the washing machine and I screwed all her clothes up on purpose and now I never have to do it again. I am a genius!" Or making fun of her, or being angry about it, or anything like that.