[ SECRET POST #3549 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3549 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Fire Emblem Fates]


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[Stellan Skarsgård in River]


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[Labyrinth]


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06.
[Mr. Clarke from Stranger Things]


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[Criminal Minds]


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[Star Trek]
















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Comments

Re: Social pet peeves

[philstar22]

Extroverts who talk over everyone and don't give those who are quieter or who think before they speak a chance to say anything.

People who think that their idea of fun applies to everyone and try to tell those who like other things that they should "get out more and have more fun," as if what they think is fun is objectively fun for everyone.

People who think that if something is said as a joke that means anything goes and they can't be criticized for their statement because it was a joke. Also people who don't pay attention to other people's cues and use their teasing or even mean sense of humor with someone who clearly is uncomfortable or hurt.

Re: Social pet peeves

[(Anonymous)]

Related to the first one - my "favorite" is people who ask something, and then say "see! You don't have an answer" as you're about to answer. Like it had to be right on the tip of my tongue, completely ready the second they stopped talking.

In regards to the second one - some people deliberately make jokes that they know are making a person uncomfortable, in order to provoke a response. I can always tell when it's this and not just cluelessness, because the person keeps bringing it up over and over again until they get the response they want.

Re: Social pet peeves

[caerbannog]

A good way around that is to have a phrase like "I've got an idea, just let me think how to word it" and hold your hand up in a wait gesture as you figure the best phrasing out. As long as you don't make them wait more than 15 seconds or so, you'll get a chance to put your words in edgewise.

If it's at work, write down your thoughts on a piece of paper so nothing gets forgotten or left behind, even if not in the meeting you can bring your ideas up individually later.

Re: Social pet peeves

[morieris]

People who think that if something is said as a joke that means anything goes and they can't be criticized for their statement because it was a joke. Also people who don't pay attention to other people's cues and use their teasing or even mean sense of humor with someone who clearly is uncomfortable or hurt.

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Re: Social pet peeves

[crossy_woad]

all this, yes