[ SECRET POST #3632 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3632 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Complaints desk

[(Anonymous)]

This is about the "my friend is gonna leave her newborn with her mom while she finishes her minor" (and you don't agree with me so y'all must obviously hate kids) wank thread, isn't it? Not agreeing with you that new moms' first priority must be BONDING WITH THE NEWBORN and if she doesn't she's borderline abusive and will regret it forever =/= hating kids.

Re: Complaints desk

[(Anonymous)]

In all honesty, that thread started to frustrate me as well. I almost wish I had made a throwaway username for that, because people started attributing much more to me then I actually said (due to multiple anons.) :/

Re: Complaints desk

[(Anonymous)]

Huh. I am child-free and might be considered a 'kid-hater' in my more extreme moments, but my stance in that thread was along the same line as the pro-bonding people. I don't want kids but if I did have one, I do think that should be a priority.

Re: Complaints desk

[(Anonymous)]

I'm a mother who bonded big time (the whole attachment deal) and I also happen to know a lot of people who went back to work etc. right after having a child because it made more sense in their respective lives at that point. Plus, babies mostly don't care whether their birth mother cares for them or someone else, and the strongest emotional attachment happens when they're about 8-14 months, not at the newborn stage.
I'm also totally for everyone breastfeeding (almost 3 years, in my case) but, like I said, sometimes it makes more sense in peoples' lives the other way. Babies are different. Lives are different. There's no "the one way", and finishing college is something that will probably benefit the child long term so it's a viable option.