[ SECRET POST #3808 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3808 ⌋

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[http://sarahcandersen.com/post/96540470653]


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Comments

Bad behavior

[(Anonymous)]

What are some behaviors you notice among your friends/family/social group, that you abhor?

Re: Bad behavior

[(Anonymous)]

My least favorite is people not respecting other people's stuff, and brushing it off when they damage something. Like, it's no big deal to THEM, so it should be no big deal to the owner of the stuff. People act like I'm being ridiculous and having a stick up my ass if I ask them to stop doing things that will end up breaking something, and they just laugh and act like it's nothing when they do break something.

If you don't give a fuck about your own stuff, see it as all disposable and are fine with buying new things regularly, fine. But have some respect in someone else's house/apartment!

Re: Bad behavior

[(Anonymous)]

Some people I'm close to have a "bad habit" of misgendering/deadnaming trans people they know. I try to gently correct them, but I get snapped at for being "too sensitive" and how it's just so hard, they can't be expected to change how they think/speak/etc.

It's... disheartening.

Re: Bad behavior

[el_regrs]

I guess this isn't necessarily "bad" behavior, but let's just say some folks proudly subscribe to the "it is better to ask forgiveness before asking permission" belief, and it makes me cringe like fuck.

Re: Bad behavior

[(Anonymous)]

Arguing loudly at each other. Except I do it too, so I can't really point fingers...

Re: Bad behavior

[ibbity]

My sister has great difficulty grasping the concept of "other peoples' snacks" and how the fact that they're other peoples' might affect whether or not she should take some without asking.

Re: Bad behavior

[(Anonymous)]

Both my parents (although my mom is worse) like to say sexist (yes, my mom is a woman but she's probably the most sexist person I know), racist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. crap and then defend it with "oh, I didn't really mean it/I was just joking/I say things without thinking about it" and then accuse me of being "too sensitive" and someone who "can't take a joke" when I point out that whatever they said was bigoted in whatever way. Drives me crazy.

Re: Bad behavior

[(Anonymous)]

Belittling of chronic illness, disability, and chronic pain.

Re: Bad behavior

[(Anonymous)]

I have a friend who blames her lack of communication on her introvert tendencies. I think, well, that's up to you, but if you can't be bothered to respond to emails/texts or show any interest in your friends' lives, eventually you're not going to have any friends.