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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-06-11 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3812 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3812 ⌋

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Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

(Anonymous) 2017-06-11 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
His girlfriend started acting paranoid and getting mad at me for trying to "steal her boyfriend" cause we RP-ed together sometimes, had quite a few high school classes together, and lived pretty close to each other. For context, I am a lesbian, he knew that, and she knew that, but somehow that wasn't enough. She like, became convinced I was secretly bisexual and after him. So we stopped RPing but she didn't get any better, and it got to the point where she would get mad at him for talking to me at all (partly because sometimes he would talk to me about their relationship problems.)

He also started acting shitty to a mutual friend of ours, which basically ended in him outing said friend to his girlfriend, when friend had specifically asked him not to tell anyone including her, because friend was in an unsafe family environment and didn't want it possibly spreading around.

Between that and his gf constantly flipping out I just couldn't do it. Which sucks cause I know it was his gf being emotionally abusive, but I was in high school and just couldn't handle dealing with all the drama I didn't want to be apart of.
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Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

[personal profile] diet_poison 2017-06-12 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
argh >:(

it's too bad you stopped RPing, giving in to the demands of someone being manipulative isn't going to make the behavior stop (but I get it, teenagedom and all)

also, that pisses me off so much, people deciding their SO doesn't get to be friends with anyone of the opposite gender. I have a couple good male friends with GFs and I'm glad they're not like that (I get along with them really well actually). I also once had a female friend with an insanely possessive BF, and it didn't seem to bother her even though it weirded me out. like she NEVER would have been able to have a male friend. Her BF didn't even want her going out (like to the bar, going to my house or another female friend wasn't an issue) on her own. She said she liked it because it made her feel protected. Gave me the creeps.

Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

(Anonymous) 2017-06-12 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
Oh to be clear he was the one who basically broke off the RPing - like he just told me he couldn't do it anymore cause his girlfriend wouldn't like it, I just decided not to argue cause I didn't want to start shit. But you're definitely right, manipulative people like that will always escalate.

But yeah it's definitely a fucked up mindset. I absolutely can't imagine being that controlling over your SO.
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Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

[personal profile] diet_poison 2017-06-12 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, he sounds like he wasn't much of a good friend tbh. :/

I'd never date someone who told me I had to stop being friends with my friends. What bullshit.