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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-06-18 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #3819 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3819 ⌋

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Re: confessions

(Anonymous) 2017-06-19 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
I'm pissed off with my brother, and I know it's unreasonable, so I'm just going to sit on it and be grumpy until I just.. get over it?

See, the last time I visited the city where he lives, a few months ago, he said that I could, in future visits, sleep at his place. Well, I'm planning on visiting in a couple of months, and I asked if I could kip on his floor, to save on a hotel. He said no. Apparently, he and his wife are too stressed out to entertain guests at the moment.
So I'm annoyed because he's going back on what he said, and because hotels in that area aren't cheap, and because - what does he think I want? Breakfast in bed? I just want somewhere I can put my bag where no one will pinch it, somewhere I can put my sleeping mat, and bathroom access.
But it's entirely his right to say no, so I'm just gonna sulk for a while and try to deal.

Re: confessions

(Anonymous) 2017-06-19 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
It's stressful having guests, even guests who believe they're low maintenance. It's also possible that your brother extended the invitation without consulting his wife (which was wrong of him, if so) and it's likely he was sincere at the time. But circumstances change - that's life. It's not very reasonable to think that he meant the invitation as a free pass no matter what. You also still have several months to plan and shop around for accomodations, and hopefully get over the fact that your brother can't do the favor for you that he once offered.

Re: confessions

(Anonymous) 2017-06-19 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
TBH, there's also the part where we've hosted him or her various times in the past, sometimes on quite short notice, and I always get pissy when people won't return a favour.