[ SECRET POST #532 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #532 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #076.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 4 - not!secrets ], [ 1 2 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
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Comments

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[(Anonymous)]

It's funny you say that-- I had such bad experiences with real men that I did the exact opposite. I turned my back on them and moved to fictional or celebrity men who were safe because I couldn't have them. I was pretty happy with that.

Maybe what has happened to me since then will work for you; I don't know, but it's worth a try.

I made a mistake; I picked a beautiful celebrity guy to fall for who was only a very minor celebrity and who turned out to be accessible. He handles all his own PR; you can go right up to him at cons, he will even go out to dinner or party with you if you play your cards right, and with the help of friends, I managed to do that. I've even spent significant chunks of time away from con with him a few times; he's actually been to my house and I can contact him by phone or online if I want. It's become a real relationship of sorts.

He still isn't someone I can have a romance with, but that's because of me being the size of Jabba the Hutt, not him being unreal. I know he's looking for a relationship, and he might be willing to consider giving us a try if I weren't so big. You might have a better chance than me with a guy like that.

But hey, even if I can't have him, he's a real guy, and I can reach out and hug him sometimes, or talk to him, so it's not all bad.

Good luck....

--Dieting Like Crazy

Re: 115

[cleverthylacine]

...if he likes you that much why does it matter that you're big?

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[(Anonymous)]

I don't know whether it truly does, actually; he's been very accepting of me and my limitations so far. Our relationship is still developing slowly over time; in terms of friendship, it has already developed far beyond what I ever expected as we've slowly grown to know one another better. What makes me wonder about how far it could go someday is that he touches me more often than I'd expect to be touched by a friend, though I have to acknowledge that he's a fairly touchy-feely person with all his friends, compared to most guys.

But the thing is, *I* have a serious psychological problem with being this big; it makes me reluctant to open up to the possibility that more might develop there, now or in the future (with him, or with anyone else). I've grown very accustomed to rejection based on size, and I very much don't want to risk what we have by trying to make the friendship become more when he has what so many people before him have found to be such a compelling reason to reject me, even for mere friendship. So even if he wanted more, I probably wouldn't know and would be resistant to going there; I'd be afraid to ruin things by letting him see how much I feel. One that cat's out of the bag it's impossible to put back in, and experience has taught me it can instantly ruin a friendship.

*shrugs* Cry moar, I know. But I'm fairly happy with us as we are, and I'm doing what I think is best to enable the relationship to progress, if it ever will-- and losing weight will help me in all sorts of other ways, into the bargain, so it's win/win even if he and I never go anywhere more romantic than we already have.

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[cleverthylacine]

This all makes perfect sense to me. I'm relieved that he hasn't said or done anything to make you think he thinks less of you for your size.

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[(Anonymous)]

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