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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-02-08 06:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #4054 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4054 ⌋

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[Spirited Away]


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[Death Comes to Pemberley]


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[The Detective, season 1]


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Re: Awkward friend situations

(Anonymous) 2018-02-09 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
You know your friend best so you know how much criticism she can take. However, you need to keep in mind that this isn't like an unflattering clothes purchase that they can return or at worst just not wear, this is something they'll be stuck with for the next few months. Because of that, emphasizing how bad it looks will never be helpful. I think even saying that the old cut was more flattering right off the bat might not go over well because your friend will be stuck thinking that they now look permanently bad until the cut grows out.

If she really presses you on it, I'd say something like, 'To be honest I did like your old cut more. However that may just be my style preference. The important thing is whether you like it and think it looks good. Do you like it? What made you decide on the change?' That way you start a more detached discussion and based on what she says afterwards you can either give feedback on the aspects of her old hairstyle that you liked, or keep your mouth shut because she loves the new look.