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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-05-06 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #4141 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4141 ⌋

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Re: Questions you can't ask IRL or online non-anon

(Anonymous) 2018-05-06 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
One time I read a magazine article about a homeless teen who lived with her cousin (or maybe it was a close friend), but her cousin kicked her out when her boyfriend moved in. I've always wondered what kind of horrible person would kick out their family member/friend in favor of their boyfriend...

Re: Questions you can't ask IRL or online non-anon

(Anonymous) 2018-05-06 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude, I knew a woman who offloaded their own 12 year old kid on their ex because the new boyfriend didn't like the kid. That stupid cow still wonders to this day how come she and her kid aren't BFFs like they used to be when the kid was 5. She has noooooooo idea where things went wrong.

Sometimes people are assholes, and being "in love" can really blind people to common sense AND common decency.

Re: Questions you can't ask IRL or online non-anon

(Anonymous) 2018-05-06 09:29 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT: Wow. Gee, I wonder.

Good point, people can be stupid when they're in a new relationship...

Re: Questions you can't ask IRL or online non-anon

(Anonymous) 2018-05-06 09:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, yes. You're in love, and your new SO is the top priority in your world. LOTS of people go through this period where they drop off the face of the earth, ignore their friends, etc. because the new relationship is all consuming. It's a self centeredness that feels intoxicating and romantic because it's not being selfish, you're just super devoted and in love!

Re: Questions you can't ask IRL or online non-anon

(Anonymous) 2018-05-07 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think that it's because they're in love. I think it's because they're inherently selfish and only give when it isn't going to hurt them, and don't grow up from that. It only becomes obvious when complications are introduced.

In other words, they already suck, the new relationship is just an excuse.

Re: Questions you can't ask IRL or online non-anon

(Anonymous) 2018-05-06 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Was homeless as a teenager. It rarely happens if your family gives a shit about you in the first place.

My family just stopped answering their phones when they found out so that I couldn't ask them for anything. They miraculously remembered me when I'd found a job and un-homelessed myself, because they needed help, support, and money from me.

The answer is: they're just regular people.

Re: Questions you can't ask IRL or online non-anon

(Anonymous) 2018-05-06 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
There could be a lot of real reasons beside the person being an asshole. Maybe they kicked out the family member because they were into drugs, violent, refuse to follow basic house rules, or the person couldn't continue to financially support them just to name a few. The cousin could be moving the boyfriend in to help as a way to help pay the bills.

Re: Questions you can't ask IRL or online non-anon

(Anonymous) 2018-05-07 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
Or it could be something as simple as they want to have their own life with their SO without having to be responsible for someone else who they really didn't technically have to take in.