[ SECRET POST #4152 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4152 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Mercedes Lackey]


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03.
[Inspector Javert]


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[DJ Khaled and his wife Nicole Tuck]


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[Scarlett Johansson at the Met Gala]


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[John Mulaney]


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[Disney's Sword in the Stone]








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[fscom]

04. https://i.imgur.com/IQF2dOz.png
[DJ Khaled and his wife Nicole Tuck]

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know what the flap is, but I wound up reading an article about sexual practices in Islam the other day, and oral sex is forbidden because the mouth is used to recite the Koran.

Maybe she doesn't get eaten out, but if his wife is Muslim as well, he won't be getting blow jobs.

There was an interview:

[(Anonymous)]

“I believe a woman should praise the man, the king,” Khaled explained. “If you’re holding it down for your woman, I feel like the woman should praise. And the man should praise the queen — but my way of praising is ‘How was dinner?’ ‘Do you like the house you’re living in?’ ‘Do you like the clothes you’re getting?’ ‘I’m taking care of your family, my family.’”

Angela Yee jumped in, “So you’re saying you don’t go down?”

Khaled responded, “Nah, never,” and added “It’s different rules for men.”

Re: There was an interview:

[(Anonymous)]

So "praise" = oral sex?

Re: There was an interview:

[(Anonymous)]

Gross.

I mean, if you're into oral sex as praise (and most men are), that's fine. But if you don't think that women can, do, or should get oral sex ad praise or as a "favor", that's gross.

I think for a lot of men, a woman going down on them is like the second ultimate vanilla-standard-sexual-practices sexual power trip (first being anal). I don't think everything is a double standard, but this is /defnitely/ a double standard plain and simple when a guy on the flipside will not go down or accept anything done to his body that isn't putting his dick in something. I'm not saying he should let his wife put a finger in his ass if he's not down for that, but it's a huge sexual blindspot for both men and women when you only experience putting your dick in a thing (man) or getting dicks put in you (woman) as valid uses of your sexy time.

If a guy is only into x and y, and a woman is only into x and y, good for them. But it's rarely that black and white...

Wait, I'm ranting. I'll cut my rant off here. /rant

Re: There was an interview:

[(Anonymous)]

different nonny

i appreciate your rant and agree.

Re: There was an interview:

[(Anonymous)]

Agreed. This is a good comment.

Re: There was an interview:

[(Anonymous)]

I may be reading too much into this, but it seems like he's paying for everything and she's into him for the money? If it's that kind of relationship, and he expects all relationships to be that way, I guess him expecting to only get what he wants is unsurprising.

Not trying to slut shame or anything, just saying getting no oral sex seems like a minor issue if the other person is buying them a house. It's a trade-off I think most people would make.

Re: There was an interview:

[(Anonymous)]

I think while you can interpret his comments to mean that this is how he sees women and relationships, you can't necessarily say the same thing for his wife. We're not hearing from her, mind you - we're only hearing his take on it. I'm not inclined to give much credit to a guy who thinks that being a male income earner entitles you to oral sex, but women shouldn't get any because being financially supported is the same as sexual reciprocation.

Re: There was an interview:

[(Anonymous)]

In fairness, if he's Muslim, women giving sex in return for financial support from their husbands is explicitly spelled out as How Things Work. (Also, the angels supposedly will curse a woman who turns her husband down for sex.) Women having the obligation to obey because men have "been given" power over them as well.

Re: There was an interview:

[(Anonymous)]

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And people say religion should be respected... This gross shit is the cancer to humanity.

[(Anonymous)]

Who is this guy and why is he suddenly famous in a bad way?

[(Anonymous)]

He ain't the sharpest tool in the shed.

[kamino_neko]

You're an all-star, Nonny.

[(Anonymous)]

He's DJ Khaled. He's a Miami musician mostly famous for two things. One, he releases rap songs where a bunch of superfamous rappers rap while he says things like ANOTHER ONE and DJ KHALED. Two, he has social media videos where he says goofy things.

That's it, that's DJ Khaled.

Here's the music video for his big hit from last year:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=weeI1G46q0o

[(Anonymous)]

lmao

THEY TOLD ME NOT MAKE ANOTHER ANTHEM. SO I MADE ANOTHER ANTHEM.

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe she just doesn't like oral sex being performed on her. I don't know, it's none of my business what they don't do in bed.

[(Anonymous)]

I would be fine if it was just her preference. An agreed upon preference where he doesn't like doing it and she's cool with that would be fine too (and likewise he wouldn't expect her to do things she doesn't like). But it had to come with the rest of that skeevy quote...

[(Anonymous)]

agreed that it's cool if it's her preference, but I wonder how much the double standard bit was just to save face on his part...which If it was me and I didn't do such things, I'd be hella tight at his implications...

[(Anonymous)]

If you know what he said on the subject, you'd know that's not the situation. He didn't say that the reason he doesn't perform oral is because his wife's not into it, he said that women should give oral to "praise" her man, but he's not going to reciprocate because he thinks providing financially is his equivalent.

[(Anonymous)]

What in the hell possessed him to discuss his sex life in public? That really shouldn't be anybody else's business. Not smart.

[(Anonymous)]

He's DJ Khaled and somebody asked him

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know this guy, but chances are he thought it was a reasonable (or even praiseworthy, no pun intended) opinion to have and didn't realize he'd be mocked for it.

[(Anonymous)]

Ugh, this thread is reminding me of a boyfriend I had once. Only PIV was a sign of ~true love and I ~must not love him for not wanting to do that 24/7. Putting a penis in your vagina isn't just shake and go. If you want to enjoy it', it's a commitment. Especially for someone like me who doesn't really enjoy vaginal sex. And I'm a horny as fuck person! Let's do it! But sometimes 69 or mutual masturbation or handies or toys (using his fleshlight on him was the best) or whatever works better.

Anyways.
It was a relief when that was over.

[(Anonymous)]

LOL, I'll bet! And good for you. Life's too short to be in long term relationships with dudes who are selfish in bed and try to justify why it's totally OK for them to be lousy in the sack.