[ SECRET POST #4190 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4190 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

What was bad about what they said? Polyamory is exactly what people who always feel inclined to cheat should be opting for, as long as they can get their shit together enough to actually try being honest with their partner(s). And if they can't, they honestly shouldn't be dating anyone.

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt

I think they are taking issue with the There are options for sluts. statement.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah - if they're cheating because they can't help sleeping with more than one person, which I doubt is the sole reason people cheat. And the slutshaming is completely unnecessary.

[(Anonymous)]

It's still possible to cheat in a poly relationship. It all comes down till wether it's sneaking behind the other partners backs ( that's cheating) or informed and consensual ( not cheating).

AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

You can still cheat in a polyamorous relationships. Cheating is about dishonesty not about having sex with multiple people. and I wouldn't want a cheater preying on polyamorous people who haven't done anything wrong. But it's clear you're one of those people who sees having multiple partners as being shame worthy no matter how honest they are about it.

You shouldn't be in relationships either frankly, if you're the kind of person to shame your partners if they've had too much sex or too many partners in their pasts. Just as much as I wouldn't want a partner who cheats, I wouldn't want a date with someone who thinks I'm a slut if I have more than an 'acceptable' number of past relationships.

So still, fuck off you complete shit.

SA

[(Anonymous)]

I just realized you weren't the original anon so I'm sorry for addressing you as such.

But you honestly don't see anything bad about suggestion polyamory is "for sluts"?

Re: SA

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Is slut still an insult? I've seen it used positively so often over the years (including in terms like 'slut-shaming', which I've always taken to mean 'being a slut isn't bad so stop implying it is') that I automatically assumed it wasn't being used that way, tbh.

And yeah, I know you can still cheat in polyamorous relationships, which was the entire reason I included "as long as [cheaters] can get their shit together enough to actually try being honest with their partner(s)" in my original comment.

Re: SA

[(Anonymous)]

The way the original commenter used it read as very derisive to me.