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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-06-27 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #4193 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4193 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2018-06-28 07:23 am (UTC)(link)
I disagree. I think what we see in TFA is exactly how their relationship would have turned out. Bickering and driving each other crazy is ok when you're young and full of hormones, but it gets old fast and there needs to be something pretty amazing to replace it. I'm not saying they didn't love each other, but TFA is as close to reality as possible for that kind of relationship and I was surprised they went there with the separation.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-28 07:47 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed.

I always got the feeling that the war took a big chunk of their focus and attention, making them ignore the flaws in their relationship in favor of appreciating what little time they got together.

Then the war was over, and even if there was a lot of work left to do, it wasn't as immediate and life-threatening, which left them space to realize that bickering is not the basis for a good long-term relationship and sometimes love isn't enough to overcome certain issues.