[ SECRET POST #4201 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4201 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Sophie Turner, from Game of Thrones]


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(Hindustan Times)


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[Philip Quast in "Ultraviolet"]


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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

yeah it's weird seeing everyone so... old-fashioned??? about it

"The implication being that white steals the bride's spotlight and red steals the bride's groom..." like jesus christ, what year is this

[(Anonymous)]

Except it's not old fashioned, just polite and appropriate. Chances are you wouldn't show up to a fancy job interview wearing a dirty t-shirt, cargo shorts and flip flops. You wouldn't show up to your grandma's funeral in Minions cosplay. If it's not your wedding day, it's not your place to dress however want. You dress and behave appropriately for the occasion and the venue because that's what mature adults do.

[(Anonymous)]

it is very old fashioned because it assumes there is an agreed upon standard of what to wear at a wedding.

you're getting outraged on behalf of the couple because it just "isn't done", even though you know nothing of what the couple thought of it. you are not acquaintance with any of the people involved.

if my grandma thought it was fun if i showed up in a minion cosplay to her funeral, who are you to tell me or anyone that i can't do that? who made you arbiter of what's appropriate at other people's personal affairs?

get your head out of your ass

[(Anonymous)]

DA - Pretty damn sure there is an agreed upon standard of what to wear at a wedding, when the wedding is hosted at the bride's family's castle, but what do I know? How are people not recognizing context here? Get YOUR head out of your ass.

[(Anonymous)]

DA What you are 'pretty damn sure' about means precisely zip - how come do YOU not recognise context, which is that it is not your damn wedding? Also, rude.

[(Anonymous)]

How is that comment any ruder than the one it was replying to? Good grief.

And unless you’re secretly the bride or groom, it wasn’t your wedding either so don’t act like your assumption is any more right than someone else’s. Shaking my head at all the “well, if they don’t care, why should we - anonymous people on a pop culture site - care?” Just because this particular guest had no class, it doesn’t mean the couple desn’t have any - it’s not like they’re going to release a press statement about it or something, ffs.

[(Anonymous)]

yes, what DO you actually know except your weird preconceptions?

[(Anonymous)]

Um...30+ years of attending all styles of weddings without embarrassing myself or drawing attention away from the actual guests of honor suggest I know one or two things about it.

[(Anonymous)]

I used to work in the wedding industry, and yes, there ARE in fact agreed-upon standards of what is appropriate for a wedding UNLESS the bride and groom specifically indicate otherwise. It can vary according to the level of formality, but what she's wearing would not be considered appropriate for any sort of wedding, no matter how informal.

[(Anonymous)]

lmao yeah right

[(Anonymous)]

DA- this whole post is exhausting and mind-blowing! I can't believe how many people are being obnoxiously obtuse and/or really believe that there aren't different clothing expectations for different styles of weddings and it's rude to fail to meet those expectations! Nice to see the occasional voice of intelligence and experience...