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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-10-27 03:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #4315 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4315 ⌋

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dahli: winnar @ lj (Default)

Re: Confessions (fandom or not fandom related)

[personal profile] dahli 2018-10-28 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
Like a month ago I went to the party of a friend's girlfriend. Eventually after people left we ended up talking about stuff and their circle of friends.

Negl I felt left out. Here they where talking about going to cons with them, talking about the stupid (like, really stupid) stuff they talked on twitter and how the cons they attended now weren't as fun as the last ones... and here I was feeling left out because they never invited me to them. That kind of brought some really bitter memories from middle school. Stupid childhood traumas.

I'm almost over it now but it really stings when you're being left out of the things you enjoy. :/ It's like being rejected by the rejected.

At least the girlfriend's cats where nice and cuddled with me on the couch while I listened to their complains.
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Re: Confessions (fandom or not fandom related)

[personal profile] syncing_feeling 2018-10-28 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
Hugs for you. That sucks and I know how it feels. When my first year of university ended and it was time to move out of halls and houseshare, my roommates told me that they'd found a house but there "wasn't room for me, they'd love to have me, but, not enough roooom"

Bumped into one of them the next year and he told me, nicely as he could, that there was room, they just didn't feel like they "clicked" with me and didn't want to live with me. I did my best to make friends with them, and I thought we were, so it stung.

You sound lovely and I'd totally go to a con with you. <3
dahli: winnar @ lj (Default)

Re: Confessions (fandom or not fandom related)

[personal profile] dahli 2018-10-28 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
That sucks. People suck. :/ They could've at least made an effort if they didn't feel like they "clicked" or whatever. At least I hope you got better friends? ;3;

And aw thank you! ;3; I'd love to go to cons in groups or at least hang out. <333

Re: Confessions (fandom or not fandom related)

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
I know. I get a similar feeling when people I know talk about all the awesome cosplay they get to do and cons they go to and inside I'm screaming I wanna go too, but I'm not gonna bug them about it because they have their established group and routine and I'm not gonna disrupt that. It's so silly because the worst I can do is ask to tag along, and the worst they can say is no. And it's not like they're preventing me from going at all.

And I constantly worry about being inauthentic as far as being a fan goes.
dahli: winnar @ lj (Default)

Re: Confessions (fandom or not fandom related)

[personal profile] dahli 2018-10-28 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I can relate. It sucks because on the one hand you want to hang out with them but on the other hand you feel like you don't belong. It's a very troubling feeling.

Re: Confessions (fandom or not fandom related)

(Anonymous) 2018-10-28 08:08 am (UTC)(link)
Oh ouch. I-m sorry you had that happen. I know exactly how it feels. :(
dahli: winnar @ lj (Default)

Re: Confessions (fandom or not fandom related)

[personal profile] dahli 2018-10-28 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks! And I'm sorry you went through that too. :( It's not a very pretty feeling.