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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-11-14 05:46 pm

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(Anonymous) 2018-11-14 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT
I mean anyone. I might make allowances for severe mental illnesses because I don't know to what extent that can affect their ability to make choices so I'm not going to make any statements about that.

But I do believe that even the most evil human person can choose to stop being evil and repent.

I want to be clear that that doesn't meant they are owed forgiveness or that they shouldn't face the consequences of their actions; that's a different thing altogether. But redemption as in accepting your actions were wrong and sincerely regretting them is a possibility for everyone. It's not likely for some people but it's still possible. If it weren't, then redemption would be meaningless.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-14 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Really? You think just...not being evil anymore and feeling realllyyy sorry for it, means someone is redeemed? How do you redeem someone like BTK? Or John Wayne Gacy? Or Dean Corll? People who rape, torture, and murder people for fun.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-14 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't redeem someone. They have to redeem themselves. They would have to WANT to change, which is unlikely. But the fact that they are probably not going to change their ways doesn't change the fact that they are capable of doing it, which means they have a possibility of redemption. There has to be a possibility of redemption for even the worst of the worst or there would never be any incentive to change their ways.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-14 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
What could someone who has murdered 35 young boys do to redeem themselves.

Or someone like Hitler who murdered 12 million people. What could YOU see them doing to redeem themselves.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
You're talking about redemption like it's supposed to make up for what they did or wipe it away somehow. That's not what redemption is. If someone kills someone, they go to jail or whatever punishment is seen fit - they face the consequences of their actions. Feeling sorry about it doesn't get them out of that. And it has no bearing whatsoever on whether or not I would forgive them or understand them. Being redeemed in my eyes (or anyone else's) isn't true redemption.

Redemption is about stopping them from doing more evil. It's about them accepting what they did was wrong and wanting to make amends, even if it were impossible for them to actually do it because there's no such amends that would make up for what they did. The power of redemption is the future. It's making sure they don't commit MORE terrible acts, and it doesn't absolve them from the consequences of what they've done.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
I have never heard anyone use redemption in that way. EVER.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
‾\_(ツ)_/‾

That's how everyone I know uses it.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
As someone below said, you and apparently everyone you know is confusing what redemption is.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
Redemption: the act of being redeemed
Redeem: serving to offset or compensate for a defect

Sorry, but you can't redeem yourself after murdering a bunch of people. Unless they can bring those people back to life, some people are irredeemable.

^ That should be to op

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 12:28 am (UTC)(link)

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 03:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Uhm... Up until today I thought everybody used it that way, and it never occurred to me people would define it differently.
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[personal profile] chamonix 2018-11-15 12:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I just wanted to say I really resonate with the compassionate approach here and feel it's something that isn't particularly trendy now, but I agree with everything you've expressed in your posts.

It's very hard respond to something monstrous with compassion, but that is what will ultimately make us better people.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
Well, a theological answer is that all beings are God, and will, in the grand cycles of time, become Her. So if that person were to truly see the error of their ways, take refuge, and engage in renunciation, they would be a little bit closer to Her than if they didn't.

That isn't a "get out of consequences free" card, and maybe a less fortunate rebirth is part of those consequences. But the rules apply to everyone and if they bring me closer to Her, it's not my place to judge whether they do for anyone else.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
What?

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Trendy " I say god is female so I don't have to be coherent" woo-speak.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
Pshht. Get outta here. If "all beings are god", this would be more accurately rephrased "all being is god". The distinctions that we draw are illusory, including those between good and evil; being itself is One.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
I think you've mixed up redemption and repentance, or trying to apply the Christian concept of eternal redemption to secular life. Here's the thing with the Christian concept of "repent and be redeemed" -- it's supposed to be miraculous, i.e. impossible for anyone but God to achieve. That's what makes it special. It's what makes Christ "The Redeemer" in all caps. And it's something the person who seeks redemption only benefits from when they die. In both the religious and secular sense, redemption requires a beneficial act so powerful that it absolves the wrongdoer of their guilt. That is the actual definition of redemption, which is based on the Latin word for "to buy back." The redemptive act(s) outweigh the bad ones and buy back the penitent's good standing/innocence/what have you.

If someone has done something so evil that it can't be made up for or forgiven, then they cannot find redemption on Earth. I'm not qualified to say whether they'll find redemption elsewhere.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
I think you've mixed up redemption and repentance

Swung by to say something like this--- because on the one hand you're right that "sincere repentance + efforts to make whatever amends to those you've wronged are possible + lasting behavior change" is different from, as you say, the Christian theological concept of "redemption" especially as applied to real people.

On the other hand, I'm inclined to argue that when talking about the fictional trope of a "redemption arc" for a character it's more likely to involve something like the former rather than actual divine intervention. (Heck, even in something like A Christmas Carol where there is actually some divine intervention involved, Scrooge doesn't actually get a do-over; he has to rethink his future behavior and change it, but the stuff he's done in the past does not just go away.) And maybe we all should be more precise in our language and talk about "repentance arcs" or "atonement arcs" instead.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
But Scrooge actually gets a true redemption arc. No, his past doesn't go away. But, he's forgiven by the people he's wronged, reconnects with his family and becomes a fully integrated pillar of the community. (Also, he's no longer damned to eternal torment, so he gets the supernatural win as well.) This works, because at the end of the day, Scrooge's crimes were greed and indifference to the suffering of others. Hurting people was the side affect of his actions, not the goal. Also, everyone we personally see him hurt either has it made up to them later or lives happily ever after without him.

In fiction, a redemption arc doesn't need to require divine intervention, but it does need to end with the audience being on board with the whole "It's okay -- he's good now" thing by the end of the arc. I don't agree that all villains are redeemable in the hands of a good writer, at least not within whatever story is being told. A villain can be unrepentantly evil, and making them redeemable doesn't necessarily make the writing stronger or better. With fanfiction all things are possible, thanks to well-written AUs. Now, in real life, the audience is society. And it doesn't matter how sorry the cannibalistic serial rapist is or how many three-legged kittens he rescues from burning buildings, society's not giving him that second chance.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 06:40 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT.

...okay, I'm actually really happy about this response even though I'm ambivalent in my agreement with it. Because I have seen and read (and for that matter played in really-small-community-theater-and-school-play-productions-of) a LOT of versions of A Christmas Carol... and all I can say is that there are A LOT of reads on the exact shape of Scrooge's crimes and for that matter how other people in his life were affected by them. And that that is peak fandom even before fandom was A Thing.

And... likewise, IRL when the audience is society, sometimes the repentance-and-atonement-arc (as in your example of a cannibalistic serial rapist) means that that person accepts that they don't ever get to rejoin society and that all they can do is (as someone elsewhere in the thread described) e.g., try to help fellow inmates (whose crimes may allow them to rejoin society) be less worse when they get out.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 08:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Which is all great, but is not a redemption arc as it is generally understood by humans. This entire thread is about redemption arcs, not feels bad for what they did arcs.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-15 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I think we're back around to a semantics argument, because I do actually think that the things that are colloquially called "redemption arcs" are probably better described as "repentance and/or atonement arcs".