[ SECRET POST #4385 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4385 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Detroit: Become Human]


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03.
(Timeless)


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04.
[Ben from Simply Nailogical and Rich Evans from Red Letter Media]


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(Netflix's Dumplin')


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06.
[Criminal Minds, season 3 episode 7 "Identity"]


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07.
[The Lion King (2019)]


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08.
[Thomas Middleditch]







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Comments

Re: Age difference

[(Anonymous)]

I mean, when people are younger, sure. If we're talking a 20-year-old getting with a 36-year-old, absolutely, it's fair to ask "what's wrong."

But there's something that happens once you get to be around 30. There start to be much, much fewer differences between you and people who are older than you, because all of you have brains that have stopped developing, and all of you are going through similar things in life. You're all working. You've all got some kind of housing payment. You're all loaded down with responsibilities. You all have at least some idea of who you are, what you like, what you want, and where you're headed. Suddenly, gaps less than 25-30 years don't feel noticeable.

In other words, many people reach a point in their life where "my own age" is a category that legitimately spans 20 years. There isn't something wrong with them; it's that that person 16 years younger/older than them actually is, at that point, a peer.

Re: Age difference

[(Anonymous)]

Hmmm. I never thought about it that way. Maybe that's why my uncle described himself and my aunt as the same age even though he's four years older. My thought when he said it was "wtf, no you're not, you're four years older than her, that's not the same age". Maybe I just don't get it because I'm not at that point yet.

Re: Age difference

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, it's kind of hard to explain. I'm in my mid-30s; my friends run the gamut in ages from 30 to 55, and when in a group setting, everyone just feels...the same. And like your aunt and uncle, there's a four-year difference between my husband and I, but we often forget there's any difference at all.

Actually, that's another weird thing that starts to happen to many people: they start "forgetting" their own age, because in many contexts, it just doesn't matter anymore. When asked, they have to sit for a moment and think about it. I've had it happen to myself a couple of times.