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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-01-15 05:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #4394 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4394 ⌋

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Re: one night stands

(Anonymous) 2019-01-16 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe it was just me but sometimes I felt like I was my biggest threat. It was weird to realize I could just dissociate and go along with the sketchiest of things. Denying something feels wrong doesn't make it true!

If you aren't comfortable asserting yourself, rejecting people, and basically saying "fuck politeness" when your gut is upset practice that first lol You don't owe anyone your safety or comfort. Also, you don't have to be an ass but your enjoyment is your priority in a one night stand, you ain't doing it for your health lmao

I gotta be honest, as a woman the odds are good to gamble on a guy being open to the idea but not expecting it so feel free to scope a dude out before deciding. You don't have to go into the date with your mind made up. And lbr, practice does make perfect so if the first one is awkward or a bust you can just try again.