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fandomsecrets2008-09-09 05:08 pm
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[ SECRET POST #613 ]
⌈ Secret Post #613 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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RANK 36 AND WE BROKE 1000! → [ pop ind tra sec
Secrets Left to Post: 12 pages, 293 secrets from Secret Submission Post #088.
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OP
(Anonymous) 2008-09-10 04:05 am (UTC)(link)In some ways I think I feel like above anon will. It might just take falling in love to pull the trigger on me hiding it like this. There are so many dumb things stopping me from saying anything or doing anything right now, even though I feel like telling the truth would help so much in some ways. In other ways I know exactly what problems it'll cause, and I feel like until I sort out ways to deal with them I can't do anything.
I'm hoping that in the future, a situation will happen that'll trigger me into coming out but... Some friends will be more supportive than others, and I can't lose any of them now, not over something like this, and not at this time.
Thank you so much though... Thank you. I'm not going to hide it forever, at least, after this, but I'll pick a time to tell everyone when.. well.. I feel more comfortable with it.
I won't lie any more though, if it comes up I'll probably say something, but ask for it to be kept on the down low. >_<'
.. i suppose that's enough for now...
/runs
Re: OP
Don't feel compelled to come out if you're really not comfortable with it, but don't wait for the perfect moment, either, because it's never going to come. And don't depend on outside circumstances to determine when you're going to do it -- again, if you do that, you'll come up with an excuse every time for why this circumstance isn't good enough. You'll sort out ways to deal with the problems it brings when the problems come up; the only way to learn to swim is by getting in the water.
Good luck, and stay positive!