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fandomsecrets2019-03-21 05:53 pm
[ SECRET POST #4459 ]
⌈ Secret Post #4459 ⌋
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[Dan Bern, WTNV, I Only Listen To the Mountain Goats, the Mountain Goats]
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[The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel]
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[Director James Gunn, Guardians of the Galaxy franchise]
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(Anonymous) 2019-03-22 10:15 am (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2019-03-22 10:35 am (UTC)(link)All that aside, the fact that the family of victim might react violently is not an excuse to just never mention the fact that someone was murdered. Of course they're going to react violently. Their family was murdered. You still don't get to just keep it a secret because it's easier for you if you don't have to deal with that. Steve went to fucking war once upon a time. Cowardice is not an excuse to lie and cover up a murder in order to avoid potential violence.
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(Anonymous) 2019-03-22 01:13 pm (UTC)(link)If I remember right, the film makers even said they did that on purpose, they set it up exactly like that to produce that reaction. As did Zola. The entire situation was set up do he'd have no option except to react emotionally. And yes, he walked right into it and gave them exactly what they wanted, but if someone murders my mother and I turn around and they're standing right beside me, I am 100% smashing their face in myself.
But, true. You don't have to forgive him for it. Neither does Steve, neither does Bucky. But by exactly the same token, he doesn't have to forgive them for what they've done. (Mostly Steve, Bucky's actions were against his will - though even still, even if someone did not willingly murder your family, that doesn't mean you should have to look at them ever again when they still have). Which is what I mean. That entire relationship is past salvaging. The things they have done to each other in these movies are beyond the pale. This is not ... Cut them out. Have them be done with each other. This is not a relationship that has ever helped anybody, least of all either of the people in it. What is there to salvage in a relationship that started out with interpersonal strife and graduated to lies and secrets and violence? Where people hide murders and respond to each other's actions with violence? Where there is no trust and never has been?
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(Anonymous) 2019-03-22 12:34 pm (UTC)(link)Also, I'm curious what your opinion is on Peter Quill's actions in Infinity War.
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(Anonymous) 2019-03-22 12:39 pm (UTC)(link)I haven't seen Infinity War. What have Peter Quill's actions got to do with anything?
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(Anonymous) 2019-03-22 12:46 pm (UTC)(link)Ah, okay. I asked because in Infinity War, Peter reacts violently to finding out a loved one was recently killed by someone who was right in front of him, and he's been getting a lot of shit from fans for that reaction (because it did fuck up a plan, but the murder had happened mere /hours/ before) while Tony usually gets a pass.
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(Anonymous) 2019-03-22 01:01 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2019-03-22 07:13 pm (UTC)(link)(Jumping back in here....I’m not the OP of the last few comments but I did comment a few posts back.)
I guess...I’m not trying to change your mind here. Obviously to you it is a very black and white situation. It just isn’t to me. They both made mistakes. Steve didn’t tell Tony what Zola said/implied. Tony tried to murder Bucky.
I mean, fair disclosure of bias - I’m more on Steve’s side than Tony’s in this. I like Tony, but I’ve found it impossible to side with him since Ultron, and I felt like he did the same thing all over again with the Accords. On the other hand, I wasn’t entirely happy with Steve in CW either. The whole Lagos debacle was entirely on him, and other than that one short scene with Wanda when they’re watching the news, the movie makes no acknowledgement of that, preferring to entirely put it onto Wanda and her scary powers. I would have been much happier if Steve had stepped up and taken more responsibility for what happened, and taken a more forceful stance in arguing against Ross’s bullshit.
So yeah, they both screwed up. But then Thanos came. And wiped out half the population of the universe. I guess under those circumstances I feel like there’s room for them to view things in a different perspective and to find some forgiveness and move forward.
But as always, mileage will vary.