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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-04-09 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #4477 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4477 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[American Gods, season two]


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(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
They literally are a pedophile in the sense of being sexually attracted to children or representations of children, sorry. You can argue that it's not morally harmful or bad to be a pedophile in that way, for various reasons, but on the basic point of "is or is not a pedophile", I don't think there's really a lot of grey area or wiggle room here.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
As someone that has no idea what the fuck is going on here but gets her hackles up when people start slinging around "pedophile"-- what ship are we talking about here? How old are the characters in question?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I'd like to know too.

Because right now, Tumblr seems to be under the impression that shipping any characters under 20 makes you a pedophile so I'm taking this with a pinch of salt until I get more detail on the characters in question.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-10 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
Right? Like... I have a lot of ships in MHA. They're cute and cute together! ...I'm sad that I can only talk about my "old man" ships without someone coming at me discourse first.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
DA.

Also, in in terms of "shipping" do they just want there to be a romantically inclined relationship where they find each other cute and maybe kiss a bit? Or are there hard, graphic, sex scenes. Or something else on this whole spectrum?

And the age of the fiction characters and where they are on that spectrum is going to be where I find certain fiction personally acceptable.

Personally, just because I can imagine 15/16 year olds exploring first physical love together doesn't make me want to actually BE with a 15/16 year old as a full adult now. It just means I have a memory of being that age and how I can imagine characters would interact. First love was fun/exciting/complicated/messy and it's okay to think about how it could have been different as different characters!

(Anonymous) 2019-04-10 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, there's so many TV shows and movies where a little kid might have a crush on another kid, or they hold hands or have a brief, closed-mouth kiss. Are Anna Chlumsky and Macauley Culkin pedo victims for being in My Girl now?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-10 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Nah there is 100% a difference between being attracted to a real living breathing child, and a drawing of a fictional child. I don't know what the actual ship in question is?? But this person'd only be a pedophile if they were a danger to real life children, not fictional ones.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I said that they were a pedophile, not that they were an actual or potential child abuser.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
lol I notice how you won't answer anyone else's questions because you know they're right and this guy is doing literally nothing wrong

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
In general, I stand by what I said.

I don't know who the specific guy is or what ship it is, so I can't answer those questions. I know we have people on Flightrising who will probably fill us in with the details. I'm also kind of operating under the assumption that OP - who is apparently on the guy's side in the whole argument - probably would have mentioned it if it was a 17 year old and a 19 year old since it would clearly be a relevant detail, instead of describing them as "kids". But who knows, maybe not.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Holy fuckin shit, dude, you came in here snapping about how this guy is "literally attracted to children" and you don't even know the situation in the slightest?

You need to take about four hundred seats. That is some serious shit to be bandying around with no information, and it is grotesque of you do it. I'm not kidding. You're just throwing gasoline on a fire because like-- what, you can? It makes you feel better? What the fuck, I'm reeling.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I am responding to a secret that describes him that way. Go yell at OP if you want to yell at someone for "throwing fuel on the fire".

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Nope, I'm yelling at you because you completely forewent any sort of critical thinking or question-asking and instead doubled down like you knew exactly what was being said about whom. It's disingenuous behavior at best, and genuinely damaging at worst.

Don't ever do this to anyone else again.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
What did I do to anyone? The secret doesn't even name whoever the person is, and they've already been publicly accused of, and banned for, pedophilia. OP described them as "liking fictional ships with underage characters." If that person likes those ships because they are attracted to those characters, they're a pedophile. I stand by that. Many people, here and elsewhere, seem to disagree with that idea in principle, and agree with OP, who thinks that the reason that it's not pedophilia is because the characters are fictional. I think that's totally wrong and I reject it entirely.

If OP misrepresented the situation, and neglected to mention some other reason that it's not pedophilia, that's entirely on them, go yell at them for it. Based on the facts of OP's post, the behavior described is pedophilic.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Except the secret doesn't say anything at all about attraction.

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-10 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
Liking fictional ships with underage characters =/= liking fictional underage characters. You should do something about your poor reading comprehension skills.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-10 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
"What did I do to anyone?"

You jumped to conclusions without knowing additional information about the person in question, just like many people do when it comes to anime shipping. Your responses are a part of a larger problem - casually accusing people that enjoy fictional relationships of one of the worst crimes in society.

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
People don't understand that there is a difference tbh. All pedophiles aren't all child molesters. Which is something I think people need to start acknowledging in order to figure out ways the actual molestation can be prevented.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay,even setting aside "fiction is not really", how old are the characters, does he ship them when they're older (because that's a common anti calling card, that even if you age them up you're still a pedo because they *were* underage, even if underage means a day shy of 18), is it even sexual at all, and most importantly, when did shipping something come to mean you automatically are personally sexually attracted to the characters involved???

(Anonymous) 2019-04-09 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Actually, yes, there's a LOT of grey area when it comes to fiction.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-10 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
They literally, literally cannot be diagnosed with pedophilia if they are only attracted to anime children. And that's going by the assumption that they are, which the secret didn't even say this guy is. It said he ships them, not anything about sexual attraction. Are you sexually attracted to every character you ship? Do you think that's how shipping works? You're wrong about that too, my friend.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-10 03:51 pm (UTC)(link)
this^

(Anonymous) 2019-04-10 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
Where does it say they’re sexually attracted to the characters in the ship? Do you assume they must be because they ship them? I’m that case all the lesbians with M/M ships and who read and write explicit porn of those ships have a lot of explaining to do.......