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[ SECRET POST #4518 ]

⌈ Secret Post #4518 ⌋

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...I don't know how to change it and recover from it.

What are you, like, 30? LOL

OP, and I am older than that.

Lots of people felt that way after watching the GoT finale

LMAO

OP, and I have never even watched the damn show.

If this a general comment and not related to something specifically going on in your life, you might want to make a list of all the things you feel like you should have done before now and then tomorrow after a good night's sleep, start working towards accomplishing all of the things you wrote down. I wrote a list last year and have checked off a surprising amount from it.

There's still time. You got this.

OP, and no, I don't "got this". I have no money, no skills, am over 40, my family doesn't care if I end up homeless and I haven't worked in ages.

I've felt this way a lot, and sometimes still do.

But... I think you just have to keep pressing forward until you find something new that's worthwhile, or even possibly rediscover something you previously found worthwhile. Life doesn't have to stop here.

I know, without specifics, I can blow things out of my ass all day. But I hope you find some peace, and that a new (or renewed) perspective leads you out of whatever stuck place you find yourself in.

I so, so feel you, anon. I mean, I'm only 31, so I know it's not as dramatic as all that. But I spent most of my 20's doing absolutely nothing, my mental health is rough, I have no qualifications, I'm ace/aro but I'm lonely, and there's no way I'll be able to have a kid since I don't have the mental or financial resources to support one.

I've been holding down a part time job for a few years now, and I've been going to the gym for about a year and a half, so those are two things I'm hanging onto. But I can barely even handle that much; it's hard to imagine taking on more.

I sometimes fantasize about being able to go back to when I was seven or eight and live the next couple of decades over again - do a little better this time. It's a pointless fantasy that accomplishes nothing, but man it'd be great.

I'm sorry you maybe feel this way too, anon. You're not alone, though.

Wow, if it wasn't for a couple of details I'd say I was the one to write this. Same age and all.

I am the OP. I just want a major do-over but I can't go back in time to the late Eighties.

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