[ SECRET POST #4522 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4522 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Matrix]


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03.
[Mr Meaty]


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[Roxanne from A Goofy Movie]


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05. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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06. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]

[Arya/Gendry]


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07. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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08. [SPOILERS for Avengers Endgame]



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09. [SPOILERS for Avengers Endgame]



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10. [SPOILERS for Dawson's Creek]



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11. [WARNING for abuse, etc.]

[ProJared]



















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #647.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Of course you think there's an excuse for cheating. Of course. If he wanted to be with Holly so bad, ask for a divorce then and fucking there. Not try to keep a marriage afloat when he was clearly only doing so for the public image and because Holly was married still.

All of the "evidence" of Heidi being abusive all is from after she found out about the cheating going on for months and was worn down by both of them treating her like shit and lashing out for fucking once.

[thewakokid]

There are valid reasons for cheating.

In this case I doubt the veracity of the abuse accusations, same I as I always doubt such accusation until I see vetted proof. *Not coughing* Amber Heard. I was alone fighting in "Hold the fuck on and see how this goes" corner around here. Not giving Jared any more of an easy run on it.

But in a hypothetical situation where a person is being abused, as this could well turn out to be however much I doubt it, yes, I think being abused IS a damn good reason to cheat. I mean ideally you'd want to leave the situation first, but if attempting to leave the situation will get you a hospital visit... What would you tell someone in that situation to do?

Also, Not that I want to focus in too tightly on what I'm reading as a personal slight, what did you mean by this?

"Of course you think there's an excuse for cheating. Of course."

[(Anonymous)]

I mean you're a sexist asshole with his head up his ass. So of course you think there's excuses.

And as someone who's been abused, both by a partner and by her parents: no. There is no excuse. Because all you're going to do is, if you get caught, potentially get fucking killed or hurt in even worse ways. It's too fucking dangerous.

[thewakokid]

Serously, did you just learn the word sexist and you want to use it as often as you can?

Are you impling abusers don't deserve to be cheated on? It's unfair to abusers? There is no excuse to do somthing so mean to an abuser? That where you are on this? People owe their abuser better than to cheat on them?

[(Anonymous)]

It's not about fairness, it's about safety, you absolute walnut.

[thewakokid]

So what are you saying all abuse victims DO have a responsibility to do to ensure their safety?

Because if you try to leave the abusers without having somewhere safe to go, you get killed. But you should turn down a healthy relationship that could save you because... it's not safe to cheat on the abuser?

So, what are you telling abuse survivors to do? Keep the abuser happy until a magical fairy god mother comes along to save them?

Seriously is this just a "Wako takes this point of view so I have to oppose him" thing? Cause telling people in an abusive relationship to not do something to seek safety and a healthier relationship because if they find out the abuser will kill them... That seems like a stance only taken be someone who wants to argue.