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[ SECRET POST #4523 ]

⌈ Secret Post #4523 ⌋

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[The Sound of Music]

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(Dead by Daylight)

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[The Mummy Returns]

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[Aladdin]

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[Criminal Minds, S05E23 "Our Darkest Hour", S06E01 "The Longest Night"]

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[ReBoot: The Guardian Code]

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Honest question (With a flippant title):

Who here, who knows me, thinks I am legitimately a misogynist? Lets try and keep it vote per customer, eh?

I think you enjoy being inflammatory, but I also don't get the impression you believe even half of the pointed sticks you use to poke the bear.

this.

That's probably fair. Personally I would't say inflammatory. I'm not trying to inflame anything... Flamboyant fits better. I enjoy being a bit ott.

Anyway, thank you.

I think you're unconsciously more sexist than you think you are, but not as actually misogynist as you lead some to believe / some believe you are.

Hopefully you don't start doing what many others do: they start as trolls, then start judging groups by their reactions to their trolling, and start to believe their own bullshit.

I don't think I'm unconsciously more sexist than I think I am - Obviously - But I appreciate the overall sentiment.

You're fine Wako. You like to be contrary and have arguments, (from what I can tell) I don't see anything wrong with that. I don't read most of the threads where all hell breaks loose, but from what I do read, I really don't think you're misogynistic.

The more I think about it, I think it's more of a conspiracy that one anon got really offended you were a dude... Or someone's out to get all the named users... idk, still love ya either way~
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I think you're the poster child for /r/enlightenedcentrism and you enjoy getting people's hackles up more than you actually believe anything you say. I wouldn't say you're a misogynist, no, but I think you argue in bad faith constantly and you don't mind people thinking that you are one because that gets a reaction out of people.

Well, I do consider myself a centrist, but I don't think that means what most people who shit on centrists think it means.

It doesn't mean, for example, that I avoid having an opinion that leans one way or the other, it means some of my opinions are on one side, some of my opinions are on the other side, and you need to have both sides open to communicating with you to stop yourself sliding into extremism.

I will say, and I mean this most sincerely: I swear to you, I try constantly when arguing to maintain a good faith approach. I mean, you've seen me arguing, I assume, I think I have apologised and admitted to being wrong more than anyone else on this community when I get tripped up.

Now when it becomes clear someone just out to be a jerk, I have no problem abandoning any debating ethics and go hog wild on provoking, but I promise you when I am arguing a point maintaining a good faith approach is paramount to me.

I don't think about you at all

That is the most insulting thing I have ever heard.

I think you're a little sexist without realizing it. Honestly, most men are; you're probably slightly less sexist than average, though I'd rather you not take that as some kind of praise. I definitely wouldn't call you a misogynist.

Well, "less sexist than average" is praise, although I think the expression is damning with faint praise. but it's not as bad as it could be, so on balance it makes me happier to read than some of the alternatives.

It's still better than I was expecting people to think of me, and "I definitely wouldn't call you a misogynist" is downright heart warming.

Thank you.

I don't. I think you sometimes say sexist things, whether through poor phrasing or through genuinely holding sexist views, but I really don't think you're a misogynist.
Oh, and the person who called you a misogynist yesterday because you said that cheating was acceptable under certain circumstances was real keen to leap to the assumption that cheating is only ever done by men, to women, in heterosexual relationships. But sure, *you're* the dick! Whatever.

That's fair. I like to think that when I come out looking sexist its because of bad phrasing. I mean it's not like I don't think about this stuff, so my opinions couldn't be considered "Accidental". There is a great deal of thought behind what I believe. What I choose to say out loud... significantly less so.

But thank you. And yeah, I wouldn't normally want to admit it, but yesterdays accusations got in my head a bit. My feminist GF is away for a few weeks, so my usual tactic of "Hey, Sweetness, take a read of this, am I being a cunt here and just don't know it" wont fly.

i think you're super thirsty for attention.

... Maybe that's fair.

No, but you're a troll or at least an attention seeker who likes to stir people up. It's honestly just tiresome by now, at least find a new schtick.

Close enough to praise. I'll take it. Thanks.

And I'm really not Trying to stir people up. But I also, when considering the merits of what I say, don't rate the question "Will this stir people up" as a very high priority.
"Will this make me laugh" generally the much more important to me.

I don't.

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