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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-09-04 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #4625 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4625 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Star Trek: Enterprise]


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[Horatio Hornblower]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 15 secrets from Secret Submission Post #662.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2019-09-05 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe consider reading/having him read this? She divorced me because I left dishes by the sink (https://mustbethistalltoride.com/2016/01/14/she-divorced-me-because-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink/) and You Should've Asked (https://english.emmaclit.com/2017/05/20/you-shouldve-asked/)

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2019-09-05 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
I've read the first one before and thought it was really on target. I'm hesitant to send it to him because he tends to have this panicky emotional reaction like "OH NOOOOO YOU'RE GOING TO DIVORCE MEEEEEE" and get really upset, followed by several days of better behavior, then back to the same old bullshit. He cares in the moment, he just can't sustain it.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2019-09-05 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
He can sustain it. He doesn't want to.

Because to sustain it that would take effort and means he's got to change and why bother when you'll pick up his slack? I'm sure he loves you, but he doesn't seem to respect you or your time very much.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2019-09-05 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
Yep to all that. He doesn't respect my time OR the work I do. It hurts his feelings when I point this out to him because he absolutely does not think of himself this way, but I've told him that his actions tell a different story than his words.