[ SECRET POST #4625 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4625 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Star Trek: Enterprise]


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[Horatio Hornblower]


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Comments

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

I can't wrap my head around nonbinary but I don't think I really need to. I just accept it and use their preferred pronouns and continue on with my life same as if they were she or he,

I can't relate to the nonbinary people I've met though. Their lives revolve around being nonbinary and social justice issues related that. Mine doesn't. Any common ground is superficial at best so I really doubt we'll have any kind of meaningful exchange or become friends.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Oh, definitely. I'll use whatever pronouns someone wants me to because I feel like it's rude not to. But my one friend, I can't help but to mentally think of as she/her because she's just so stereotypically girly that thinking of her as something other than a girl is kind of silly to me. Of course, I would never say that, and I feel like asking "hey, why do you consider yourself non-binary when you're so typically 'feminine'?" wouldn't be polite. I do sometimes feel like it's an attention grabbing thing in that case, but of course you don't say that out loud (and I actually feel kind of guilty even thinking it to be completely honest, but in a way that kind of seems like the only logical explanation).

Yeah. I mean, I'm sure I don't 100% check off all the boxes of how a girl/woman "should" be, but I was born one, am completely comfortable being one (well, periods are annoying, but I wouldn't want to be a man), and honestly don't really think of being female as a big part of my identity.

(That said, I'm not going to rail against "social justice warriors" or any of that BS. I think social justice is important, I think it's important that trans and non-binary people have equal rights and are not discriminated against. I just don't personally understand/relate to it, but realistically, I guess I don't need to. It's just something that's kind of baffled me for awhile now, and I felt like this thread was an appropriate place to talk about it.)